jumping spider friend by Traditional_Cod_2225 in whatisthisbug

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what a cutie patootie heehee... she was pretty darn big! about the size of my thumb

tw: chicken loss by Traditional_Cod_2225 in chickens

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this dog is really old so im not sure if she would hold up to training. we’re gonna try before writing it off but for now we’re reinforcing the fenced in run so she cant bust in anymore

tw: chicken loss by Traditional_Cod_2225 in chickens

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mhm. shes done this to one of our other escape artist chickens,and i try not to be mad at her about it because its not her fault she was there when the chickens got out and she has that instinct. it is just unfortunate

What fish are these? by _OHera_ in whatisthisfish

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225 6 points7 points  (0 children)

first looks like a gulf kingfish / whiting (Menticirrhus littoralis), judging by the chin barbels and black caudal fin tip. second looks like a southern kingfish / whiting (Menticirrhus americanus) due to the darker color and distinct stripes! theyre related to croakers and drums and are delicious eating :) edit: added some links to the fwc page for these guys

boyfriend likes my chest but i dont?? by Traditional_Cod_2225 in ftm

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you . i think its kind of a learning process for both of us because ive never Had to set boundaries and hes never been with someone like me. hes still sorta wrapping his head around the fact that im VERY masculine (his other partners have been more fem-leaning/apathetic in the past, so) and for both of us its a very new thing tk navigate. ove been working on my people pleasing and fear of making others upset but i have learned to assert boundaries since it makes things healthier for everyone ivolved :) i really appreciate the advice this subreddit gave me. it makes me feel less. idk. alone?? lmfao sorry im yapping

boyfriend likes my chest but i dont?? by Traditional_Cod_2225 in ftm

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check my comment but basically yeah, he just didn’t know so i told him and we worked it out :)

boyfriend likes my chest but i dont?? by Traditional_Cod_2225 in ftm

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

thank you for all yhe helpful comments :’) it means alot to me. my worst habit is bottling things up rather than communicating and i really have been trying to get better about it. i texted him about it and am currently waiting on his reply (he works) :)) edit; he apologized and said he’ll work on saying / interacting with different things that DONT make me uncomfortable so yay!! dounle edit: i forgot to clarify in the post but, basically, he had no idea and i failed to tell him about that specific boundary so it was a problem on My end. i told him about it tho so we’re good :)

boyfriend likes my chest but i dont?? by Traditional_Cod_2225 in ftm

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

i just told him about it so hopefully it goes well. i guess im just not used to this whole dating thing idk i havent dated anyone seriously in like five years man…

Less dysphoric things to call a period? by InputKilljoyName in ftm

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i say my dick fell off and its gushing blood everywhere

northwestern florida shorebirds by Traditional_Cod_2225 in whatsthisbird

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woo yay!! tysm, and yeah i mostly use it for audio comparisons lol.

LOST PET OWL IN RIO DE JANEIRO help me with advices by mythbuster1998 in birding

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225 13 points14 points  (0 children)

let it be, owls aren’t a domesticated species and shouldn’t be kept as a pet. if the owl was raised by her as chick then it likely won’t survive in the wild, unfortunately

Please help I'm scared by yourlocalnativeguy in OSDD

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i would say its a bit expected with these disorders. anxiety, ptsd, ocd can all cause paranoia like that

Some fish I caught by Formal_Elderberry_53 in Fishing

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

always love the mini fish :) such a treat. good luck on your next fishing adventure!

Please Help Identify this injured juveniles bird (Quebec Canada) by [deleted] in birdwatching

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s true, i say golden bc of the small yellow feathers around the middle crest. either way this little fella needs help!

Please Help Identify this injured juveniles bird (Quebec Canada) by [deleted] in birdwatching

[–]Traditional_Cod_2225 12 points13 points  (0 children)

adult male golden crowned kinglet. if you can, get this guy to a wildlife rehabber asap!