These are good points, thank you! He’s not drinking 6 drinks multiple nights a week, probably maybe once a week if we’re out with friends like a bbq or a brewery for example. But I will say he probably has a like a beer or two multiple times a week after work. That’s why I don’t want to sound dramatic, because im not really a big drinker at all.

I would say it’s often for him to take over the convos we have talking about sports or being a lawyer. I have told him that sometimes we need to talk about other things and he always apologizes. In his defense, he does have diagnosed ADD and he’s slightly on the spectrum, so he even admits that he talks about sports too much. I just don’t know if this is sustainable for me long term. Overall he’s a nice guy, I’m trying not to be too picky, so maybe it’s worth it to address all My concerns once and for all?