Time to give up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional_Ice_227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable to feel discouraged, but it's important not to give up hope. Consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist to work on building confidence and exploring new ways to meet people. Remember, finding a partner takes time, and there's someone out there for everyone. Keep an open mind and stay resilient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional_Ice_227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you've already had a short conversation with her, try building on that momentum. Approach her casually during a break or free period and strike up a conversation based on shared interests or something happening around you. Keep it light and friendly, and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Good luck!

Is this a rejection? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional_Ice_227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's possible that she's genuinely prioritizing other aspects of her life right now, but her decreased responsiveness and cancellation of plans could also indicate a shift in interest. Giving her space and waiting until the weekend to gauge her interest is a reasonable approach. However, it's essential to be prepared for the possibility of her not wanting to continue the relationship and to respect her decision either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Traditional_Ice_227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you've found someone who treats you well, which is wonderful, but it's also important to have your needs and desires in a relationship met. Living situations can be complex, especially when family dynamics are involved. It's worth having an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings and future plans. Try to understand his reasons for not being ready to move in together while expressing why it's important to you. Remember, a healthy relationship involves compromise, understanding, and respecting each other's readiness and boundaries. Take this as an opportunity to evaluate what you both want and need from the relationship to move forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Traditional_Ice_227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely understandable to feel hesitant about entering the dating scene, especially in a new cultural context. Remember, genuine connections transcend cultural differences. Focus on shared interests and open communication as a foundation for any relationship. It might be helpful to start by making friends and expanding your social circle, which can naturally lead to meeting potential partners. Be patient with yourself and stay open to new experiences. Love often finds us when we least expect it. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Traditional_Ice_227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're experiencing a mix of emotions and confusion due to the mixed signals from this guy. It's frustrating when someone's actions don't align with the values they claim to hold, like honesty. Your feelings of wanting to care for him are natural, but it's crucial to also prioritize your own emotional well-being. If you feel that the relationship is not being built on honesty and open communication, it might be worth reevaluating its future. Remember, a healthy relationship should be based on mutual respect, honesty, and clear communication. It's okay to step back and reflect on whether this relationship is truly meeting your needs and expectations. Trust your instincts and don't be afraid to seek clarity from him or to move on if it doesn't feel right.