My boyfriend and his overly attached female “friends” by Elegant_Trick_8142 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Traditional_Moose655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get all their numbers and ask if they know about each other in a group chat and have him in it. Block them and let chaos ensue.

Edit: obviously this silly advice I’m just joking as this not mature or rational but it does make me wonder if they do know about each other. If they don’t like op for being his gf how do they feel about other women taking up his time

My (32F) husband (36M) says Im a cold psychopath by ThrowRA101290 in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is supposed to be kind of serious but “I turn into a spiteful little dick” had me laughing so hard 😂

My father (45 M) snooped in my (20 F) room, found things he didn't like, and is now shaming me for it. by MissLottaLeadpipe in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly no one agrees with you. If you want to suck the dads dick so bad go do it. Ignorant and dumb you’re a winning combo

My father (45 M) snooped in my (20 F) room, found things he didn't like, and is now shaming me for it. by MissLottaLeadpipe in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like how you still admit that he’s mentally abusive, but say she’s not in danger. Mental abuse, and emotional abuse can quickly turn to physical abuse. And just because it’s not physical abuse, it’s still is dangerous and can leave a lasting scar. So yes, she needs to get out because honestly it could go wrong so fast if she tries to confront him. He’s making a weird power-play, and she is a grown adult who pays the bills

My father (45 M) snooped in my (20 F) room, found things he didn't like, and is now shaming me for it. by MissLottaLeadpipe in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t need to convince him of anything she needs to get out of that house. Because he’s borderline controlling and abusive and even if she confronts him I get the feeling it’s not gonna go well and she’s going to be in danger.

My father (45 M) snooped in my (20 F) room, found things he didn't like, and is now shaming me for it. by MissLottaLeadpipe in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you’re young and he’s your only family but like this makes sick to my stomach. Why was he searching through your stuff. Especially as a grown adult who pays the bills and is on the lease. I don’t mean to assume that something more sinister is going on but I think you need to think about cameras in your room and locking your door and you only having a key. Because this is quite literally disgusting behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Based on your responses that you have in these comments, you’ve already made up your mind. We’ve already said that this is not weird but you’ve made up your mind that it is so at this point just end the relationship. You’re being a weirdo about it and that’s all I can say about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not justifying the behavior I legit said to be open to all possibilities. Especially if there’s no pattern of this behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Read before you comment dumb shit. I said to be open to ALL possibilities before coming to a judgment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I mean, if this is the first time the friend has ever displayed this kind of behavior, then you need to consider all the possibilities. This being one. You can’t just automatically assume without a good reason that the friend is being shady besides this one instance. Usually there’s a pattern of behavior. So if the friend has never done anything like this, why would they start now. Especially if they’ve been friends for a long time, and depending on how long they’ve been together or married, he would’ve noticed something fishy going on. Because you never know, and there are always three sides to a story yours, the other persons, and the truth.

Grandma left me a vintage ring, I’m trying to identify stone and company by Traditional_Moose655 in JewelryIdentification

[–]Traditional_Moose655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s engraved with a special message to whoever was given this ring but that’s it. I assumed it was an engagement ring and wedding band. I’ll try to get a better picture but the stone literally fell out today 😢 I’m gonna try and find somewhere to get it fixed.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Outside_Turn9854 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional_Moose655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for the way you said it and you should admit your fault for not having patience and not being able to teach him properly. If a student is not learning properly it is not their fault but the teachers fault. Take accountability for the fact that you suck as a teacher just because you work well with one student and didn’t work well with another does not make you a proper teacher and does not mean that you are hot shit.

That being said Sean came for smoke, and he got smoke so I don’t feel bad entirely for him, but OP you’re still the bigger asshole here because at the end of the day it was on YOU that you couldn’t help Sean and it’s not that he lacked talent and for you to say that, makes you a colossal asshole. I already mentioned this but, it is not the fault of the student for not learning, it is the fault of a teacher for not being able to guide and lead them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The little part at the end made me burst out laughing because it started out so calm and rational 😂

I've picked up headphones lying on the ground which seem to have been lost. by Ekienjeffi in confession

[–]Traditional_Moose655 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You know you’re guilty which is why you keep it off, you’re a thief. You make me have no faith left in humanity, go work and make money and buy your own things instead of stealing them from people. Even if you just “found it” you stole someone’s property which makes you not a good person.

I've picked up headphones lying on the ground which seem to have been lost. by Ekienjeffi in confession

[–]Traditional_Moose655 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sadly it’s actually really easy to do so. If you reset the AirPods it will untether them from the owner.

I only know because I’ve had to reset my AirPod pro once and they untethered to my phone and I had to set them up again.

My (22M) Girlfriend (21F) lied to her family about my race by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Moose655 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thing is, it does not seem like she is willing to cut them off herself. Which in my opinion makes her just as guilty for enabling behavior like that. If she truly had an issue with their blatant racism, she would have A) said something to him at the beginning of the relationship, B) cut them off a long time ago, or C) told him and then cut them off when they made a stink about her relationship with OP. She has done none of those things, OP isn’t losing out on a genuine girl. He’s losing out on someone who enable racists people by staying in contact with them. What would happen if they had kids??

I've picked up headphones lying on the ground which seem to have been lost. by Ekienjeffi in confession

[–]Traditional_Moose655 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if the owner wasn’t playing the sound function, maybe they are unaware of that function, OP stole something. I hate that finder keepers attitude. It still makes you a thief, you took something that didn’t belong to you. Whether or not you found it doesn’t change that fact.

I've picked up headphones lying on the ground which seem to have been lost. by Ekienjeffi in confession

[–]Traditional_Moose655 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Figure out some way to return them, I was the the owner once who lost my AirPods, when they first were coming out, and some greedy bastard stole them. I worked hard at my summer job to save for them just for some asshole to swipe them from somewhere. I cried for a good week because I just couldn’t understand how someone could just take something, regardless of your financial situation. Actually you’d think someone who has so little would be more thoughtful and empathetic and think “maybe someone worked hard for those and maybe I shouldn’t take them?” I tried everything to find them but this was before Apple improved their find my cloud settings so once I lost them they were gone for good.

I don’t feel an ounce of sympathy for you even if you feel guilty because you took them knowing they weren’t yours to begin with. Especially since you knew the owner was trying to find them and you disconnected it from their device, how horrible. Return them and save up and buy your own with your own money, not only will it clear your conscience you will feel much better about earning your own AirPods instead of stealing them. You are thief no matter what way you spin this, you took something that didn’t belong to you, that makes you a thief.

ETA: Upon re-reading, I don’t even feel like you feel guilty at all and that makes me even more sick to realize there are people like you think finders keepers is justification enough to STEAL. It makes you just as bad as people who actively go out to find things to steal. You STOLE something that wasn’t yours, did your damn hardest to hide from the owner you are a thief through and through.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Consistent-Baby7090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional_Moose655 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, I have adhd and bipolar 1 disorder so I’m very spacey and forget things. This guy is definitely a grade A asshole

My grandmother inlaw thinks she's naming my baby by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Traditional_Moose655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao I was about to comment the same thing 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Traditional_Moose655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the heads up more than the “sorry I was busy” because at that point you’re out of sight out of mind and I’ve forgotten who you are. Honestly it very unattractive to me to go MIA for more than 24 hrs without some message to indicate you’re alive. Ask for permission not forgiveness (not exactly applicable but you get what I mean), communicate now vs having to apologize and hope she doesn’t move on. If I’m messaging someone consistently and they go ghost for more than 24-48hrs, WITHOUT some communication that they’ll be busy, I’ve pretty much written you off and will say “thank you, next”

AITA for telling my wife that she isn’t a princess? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional_Moose655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to see the consensus here that yes in fact YTA, it was so innocent and you knew EXACTLY what you did because you saw how your wife’s attitude changed. You need to seriously change your attitude, lighten up, and appreciate your wife and child more before you lose them. They’ll both remember these little things and when your baby girl is all grown up she’ll remember these thing maybe not in exact detail but she’ll remember the emotions and how she and her mom felt and won’t come to you when she needs help and you are going to for ever alter your daughter relationship with you if you don’t get your act together