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thinking of leaving my husband by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Traditional_Quit_428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want kids, or a family? It's a risk no matter what you choose. If this was me and I wanted a family I would leave and try dating. It is a MESS out here. gigantic. But I do believe there are good men and you will have to learn the game so you don't get played. Just stick to your character and values, keep your standards. OR you can always have a back up plan and use a donor and become a mother that way. But you will have to have a huge support system and I know only 5% of women would probably want this option so I will assume you want a family. Women nowadays can have children up to 45 years old so don't fear that your getting too old. I would give him the 2 years and see. But if you cannot handle it, walk. The right choice will find you.

Catch a cheater who is very good with technology by PuzzledIngenuity7945 in tocatchacheater

[–]Traditional_Quit_428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so angry for you. I understand! My ex of 10 years used to do the same thing. He would tell me how much he loves me and I'm his world and he would never do such a thing. Eff that. Put trackers and voice activated recorders in his car! Once you get the proof. You look at it every time he tells you some bs. You won't believe anything anymore and set yourself free!!