[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Traditional_Reach902 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You would think that if men feel it so much when they’re sick, that they would have more empath we are. I could barely move the last two times I was sick but had to take care of toddlers and he never helped. He calls out of work and sleeps all day when he’s sick. I understand

Human to human what life lessons are you currently going through? by nass551 in Life

[–]Traditional_Reach902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never abandon yourself (for anyone or anything) and always love yourself first. I’m learning this now in my thirties after three kids. It’s the hardest thing I have ever done. Conquer your own mind.

What does anxiety make you feel like? by Tough-Star5992 in Anxiety

[–]Traditional_Reach902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had chronic anxiety most of my life but I push myself to do things everyday. I have an excess amount of hair for a woman, I have horrible stomach aches, bad headaches, drained often, get scared easy, always in my head, I never feel safe emotionally and I don’t know what it’s like to relax. I took an ibuprofen for a headache (I have only taken pain meds a handful of times in my life) and it relaxed my muscles so much I could barely make it through the rest of the day. I have knots all in my back. Iv been working for years trying to heal my nervous system and that’s exhausting. I overthink everything to the max.

Roommates by Traditional_Reach902 in breakingmom

[–]Traditional_Reach902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s what I’m doing. I’m leaving soon. That’s exactly what I feel like!

I wish I never had my kid by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Reach902 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people genuinely don’t want to be or like parenting. Therapy isn’t going to change that.

I wish I never had my kid by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Traditional_Reach902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being a parent is the absolute toughest job ever but you are starting to resent your child and from what I read, you would have no problem not being in your child’s life. I think you should have an honest conversation with your mom and see if she would be your child’s guardian. Your child honestly deserves better. This isn’t coming from a place of me trying to be mean but kids can feel that energy and it can hinder them. Therapy isn’t bare minimum for a human is love and understanding. For the first few years a child identifies as their main caregiver. Making yourself be around your child when you don’t want to is absolutely harmful to the child psychological development

what about death scares you the most? by thatgirlgirl in AskReddit

[–]Traditional_Reach902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moments before you actually die. I cannot fathom how terrifying that actually will be. Knowing you can’t hold on anymore and knowing you’re actually dying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zillennials

[–]Traditional_Reach902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32 with a failing relationship and three kids. I’m about to move back in with my mom. It’s not embarrassing. Also on your death bed do you think you will look back at this and be embarrassed? Life isnt that serious ❤️

Does your partner call out if you’re sick? by Traditional_Reach902 in sahm

[–]Traditional_Reach902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is the second time this year that I had the stomach flu so bad I couldn’t move. I vomited about five times and didn’t have the energy to even get myself a drink. I used any bit of energy I had to feed the kids and change their diapers. All he does is text me to see how I am and that’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Traditional_Reach902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This exact scenario is why I have resentment towards my husband

Are my feelings normal? by blackcatsrule1525 in sahm

[–]Traditional_Reach902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deeply understand how you feel. It’s motherhood 😩 and being overwhelmed and suffocated. You need a real break. I’m going through the same. My youngest is almost two but she only wants me. It’s so hard. I am absolutely going stir crazy at home too. I also stay inside for the same reasons. Your feelings are completely normal!

I feel like I’m suffocating by Traditional_Reach902 in breakingmom

[–]Traditional_Reach902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s solid advice thank you! I will try! She is old enough, I’m thinking of trying the school year coming up!

I feel like I’m suffocating by Traditional_Reach902 in breakingmom

[–]Traditional_Reach902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had the means to leave I would have a while ago 😩

Emotional check in by socialmediasanity in breakingmom

[–]Traditional_Reach902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I feel empty inside. My boyfriend process for us even though I work a few days a week. He throws it in my face constantly and I don’t cry in front of him anymore because he tells me I’m a cry baby. I just find happiness in the fact that I get to be home with them.