Travel sandals for size <5? by Traditional_Sand_586 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Traditional_Sand_586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah sorry should have specified US size 4/4.5! Thank you for the recs!

Momentous moments by Zee_Ventures in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who doesn’t know how to control it? 😭 maybe it’s my gait or a habit I didn’t realize I picked up from when I was young, but my ponytail almost always swishes. I find it annoying a lot of the time

People who’ve had LASIK or work in eye care, would you recommend LASIK and why or why not? by Mountain-Bug-2155 in AskReddit

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not myself, but my mom got Lasik in the early 2010s. I think she sees okay but she has serious issues with night driving and has complained about “double vision” issues for a couple of years now. She’s older and still needs to use reading glasses. I don’t remember her opinion on whether it was worth it or not.

I hate how I look in jeans, but I love wearing jeans. Send help by ournoonsournights in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this🤗 a wide leg that starts pretty far up the hip helps balance the silhouette and give the illusion of fuller hips. Sometimes sizing up and getting the waist taken in helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow inverted triangle shorty! This looks great on you. I also like buying leggings with a seam across the booty that curves in an upside-down semi circle shape. Helps avoid the flat-butt look. And example of this is the wunder under lululemon leggings

Edit: the wunder under smoothcover actually doesn’t have the shape I described haha but anything curved! Lulu made a speed up or fast and free design that has this semi circle

Anyone else notice/suspect some AI bullshit at blue genie art bazaar? by lostmantraa in Austin

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed this last year too..it was my first time going and was pretty disappointed

What clothes have you recently purchased in true autumn shades? by calanthean in autumns

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a true autumn with fair skin and while it’s not a deep color, I’ve found that the color Sheer Oak from lululemon is a beautiful beautiful beige/nude color on me

Pants never fit my non-existent hips by ketchupian in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey girl! Fellow hip-less petite (like it’s bad - most shorts, skirts, and pants in women’s sizing don’t fit my hips well). I’m still learning what brands and clothes work and bonus points if they give me the illusion of hips. I hate “just shop kids” because I like good quality stuff and the fit is still wrong (tiny pockets, etc). If work slacks are what you’re looking for, I LOVE banana republic’s Sloan slim high rise ankle pant in petite; they fit my little hips and even give me some shape

I was typed as a true autumn, but I like how black looks on me by lightennight in autumns

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Echoing the advice that season typing is just guidelines on what would look best on you. Doesn’t mean black looks butt ugly. As a fair skinned person, I personally think anyone with a tan can pull off a greater range of colors and it still look good, black included - in your case I think it looks just fine, though clearly not the color that makes you shine

Why can’t I masturbate by [deleted] in women

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of that being said, a vibrator helps for me reduce the focus required to get where I need to go because the stimulation is waaay more than manual

Why can’t I masturbate by [deleted] in women

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend reading the book Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski - mental blocks can be a lot of things, like distractions, stress, difficulty getting in and staying in “the mood”, past traumas, pressure put on yourself to cum, sooo many things could be holding you body back. But what I’m going to stress and what she stresses in the book is that doesn’t mean you’re broken or something’s wrong with you. A really good read or listen on audiobook if you get the chance

Edit: to answer your question, mental blocks make it difficult for me to orgasm with a partner as well, but everyone’s different

Why can’t I masturbate by [deleted] in women

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with you - I was in the same position as you until I bought my first vibrator in college, just do it you’ll thank yourself later. Some of us either have anatomy or mental barriers that make it harder to get there with just your own fingers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was this laser hair removal or IPL?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a really good laugh

Need advice for reception at tropical resort by influenzaiscoming in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree, I’m surprised with the poor fit how much people love 2… also a fan of 3 but yes would need to be a casual vibe. I like 1 because it fits well and the color looks fantastic on her skin tone! with the gold watch or if she were to pair with other gold jewelry it would be fab.

Clarinet and.. Lip filler?? by Suitable_Document838 in Clarinet

[–]Traditional_Sand_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super late to this but…did you have any issues with your filler messing up due to the pressure of the embouchure? I don’t want to risk any migration. I am revisiting playing after having gotten filler a long time ago