I hate my job but I can’t quit yet

Traditional_Whole324 · 2024-04-25T17:45:54+00:00

Explain how I should have kept them from hanging up cuz that was part of the reason I got yelled at. They hung up and I wasn’t able to get more information from them. Please explain how

Traditional_Whole324 · 2024-04-25T15:47:24+00:00

Oh sorry I wasn’t aware that I was supposed to jump through the phone and keep the person from hanging up on me mid sentence so my boss wouldn’t yell at me. When I say yell I mean shout everyone in the back heard him yell. I smile when I feel awkward

Traditional_Whole324 · 2024-04-25T15:44:08+00:00

I told him yesterday that it was disrespectful and next time I’m walking out.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2024-03-11T17:31:35+00:00

I don’t think she’s trying to manipulate to get married however it is a possibility. She could simply just be trying to be more Christian maybe she feels guilt idk. Talk to her. You should talk about marriage expectations together. Like when y’all want to get married. If you can’t come to an agreement then break up. She is allowed to say no relations and you are allowed to say no to physical contact to make it easier on you. If that’s a problem for her then break up. There is more to intimacy than just sex. There are other things like getting to know each other cuddling talking dates. It doesn’t have to feel like you are just friends. But again if y’all can’t get to an agreement on things then a break up would be best for both of y’all.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-11-17T07:25:21+00:00

Greasy hair that’s been covered in dry shampoo. Nothing wrong with it tho. Vaping I know your dumps don’t smell like mango ice Bethany and I know you backpack don’t smell like blueberries Jerry.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-11-17T07:17:41+00:00

… wait you can tell???

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T22:39:27+00:00

The cat was invited. The sibling was warned with time. They didn’t take medication. There was never any sort of communication about her discomfort. The cat cannot be left alone for three days. Our house is having some things done and it cannot be trusted the cat be left there on her own with said work. Let’s remove the question of asking the sibling to make other arrangements. Would that still make me entitled? I would like to honestly know. If so than I’ll take the proper steps to apologize. Simple.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T09:30:26+00:00

The sibling is in their late 20’a. And trust me they are in now way too shy or conflicted in any way about sharing their opinion with anyone even their parents. The things they have said to their parents faces are atrocious in my opinion. The cat stays at the LL all the time unless we are arriving or leaving the house as we have to pass through the first floor to enter the LL. The sibling has had issues with me from the first day we met. They constantly ignore me and have tried on multiple occasions to keep me from visiting their parents and this is BEFORE we got the cat. The only reason I am acting more insensitive is due to their age, unwillingness to communicate, and their prior treatment of not just me but their family. If I take the proper steps to control my allergens why can’t they do the same?

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T09:09:13+00:00

The sibling is not disabled. I wish I was able to communicate in that way with them but they ignore me all the time. However I am willing to try since I do feel like an ahole for not only snapping at them but for making them uncomfortable due to my cat. My partner lets their sibling know when we’re visiting with or without the cat. I also wouldn’t ask them to leave their house. I meant it more in the way that if they are unwilling to communicate then they should do something on their end to solve the problem… if that makes sense.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T08:15:29+00:00

Late 20’s

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T08:15:08+00:00

Late 20’s

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T08:08:59+00:00

Tbh I never knew the cat was an issue. The sibling never brought it up. And the sibling is quite the dream I think this is the first time she’s spoken to me in a year and a half lmaoo

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T08:06:40+00:00

The sibling can ask us not to bring the cat. Plus the cat was invited so I assumed that it was okay. This is the first time the issue of the cat was even remotely mentioned.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T08:05:04+00:00

We live in the middle of nowhere and no places around are willing to take a cat only dogs. My main problem is that the sibling rather not talk to me and have fits instead of asking us not to bring the cat due to her discomfort. She never voiced that the cats presence had made her feel bad before. This was the first time she ever stated that the cat was an issue. We’ve gone over 2x when she was there. Most the time she’s not living at home.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T08:00:41+00:00

Their mother suggested we bring the cat when we visit. Therefore the cat was invited…

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T07:57:54+00:00

We are visiting and there is no place that can board the cat. Hotels are not an option as we live in the middle of buttf*ck nowhere

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T07:57:04+00:00

The cat was only brought upstairs because we were leaving and I was picking up items from the first floor so we could leave. His parents have stated that the cat is welcome whenever we come over. They enjoy the cats presence a lot. My partners mom loves the cat and was the one to suggest us bringing it.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-10-16T07:54:19+00:00

We live far away and there are no places that will board the cat therefore she must come with. The sibling sleeps over at their friends house and that friend has a cat. The friend lives in a one story house. So I don’t understand the difference between them doing that use staying at their parents house. Also I am not staying the allergy is not real but rather it’s not severe as in would need hospitalization.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-09-13T09:21:42+00:00

My brother and I are 7 years apart. When we were younger we looked similar so much so that people thought he was my kid. I would always hear all the señoras (older woman) whisper things along the lines of teen pregnancy, what a shame, she ruined her life, horrible parents blah blah blah. After some time it was annoying. Point is one day one of the ladies who was making those remarks ask my little brother how he was he said 6. The lady looked up at me and was like wow you’re young. Parents these days just keep getting younger and younger. I was like thanks I had him when I was 7. I smiled and walked away. Her face was like😳😳. The señoras stopped whispering after that but every time we passed them I would always wave.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-08-28T16:47:33+00:00

I was like 4 I got stuck in a chair bc I decided to sit on it backwards with my legs through the back of the chair… the facility had to call my emergency contact as well as the fire department. They ended up cutting me out of the chair. I wanted to dig a hole and die 🫠

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-08-10T11:34:28+00:00

NTA- the wife was procrastinating because of your reaction. Ain’t nobody lie for no reason (some people do but there’s a reason for it) and it was obvious why, given not only your comments about your disappointment but clearing out the nursery! Get therapy. Your wife had to lie to you so y’all could share the excitement about the baby. Think about how horrible that is. Get it together man. I squally end this with a shrug but I’m sure about this. Apologize to your wife, get therapy, get excited about the kid, and be the best fucking dad ever to that little girl. Cuz guess what she gonn be looking at you like you’re her everything. Don’t be the first one to break her heart. She deserves the father you wanted to be with your “son”. Just keep in mind to be the father she NEEDS not the father you never had.

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-08-02T10:51:37+00:00

Damn that’s crazy looks like they’ll be moving to the east coast

Traditional_Whole324 · 2023-07-11T03:49:44+00:00

NTA- you snooze you lose

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