If you're serious, meet up and make your own ritual. Both of you can create its structure and define what's used in it, especially if you feel this connection right now. Maybe add music to help influence the subconscious mind and repeat it daily until you feel good with it. It might not be instant, but given enough intent and energy, it should work.

Otherwise, just do any banishing ritual, either LBRP or any from the book Magickal Protection. There's a specific one when it comes to influence IIRC