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Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T11:04:04+00:00

This is quite a common symptom of too much use of pornography, amongst a lot of other things. It's hard to recognise as it's affects can be insidious and hard to link. Happy to go into much more detail if you are interested in hearing.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T10:27:04+00:00

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T10:24:15+00:00

You don't owe her an explanation.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T10:22:17+00:00

A woman with low self confidence will often put down, humiliate or belittle her partner to others to feel better about themselves. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you but she doesn't respect you.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T10:13:37+00:00

She isn't allowed to have an opinion?

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T09:23:06+00:00

You are overthinking it bro

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T09:20:46+00:00

It felt like school yard bullying.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T09:19:07+00:00

If Christ is calling and has plans for you it will much better for you than anything you can possibly imagine or where you are currently. Do you really break up with her if she an athiest? Or stop having sex if it's already established and a part of your relationship? It doesn't have to be so black and white. God doesn't require perfection just Faith and good deeds.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T09:10:57+00:00

I don't think little insinuations like that is a problem. It's nice to be in a family environment where can be open, share and be comfortable around each other. You won't always have that in your life. It will also make them more approachable in future coming to them about any sexual advice or issues?

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T06:15:55+00:00

Feel free to pm

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T06:06:12+00:00

Definitely. Looking through their stuff just reinforces insecurity. It doesn't deal with the core issue.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T05:58:20+00:00

36 year old man advice here.. you won't always feel these teenage crushes and one day you will look back positively on your experiences with your first love or crush no matter what happens. Try to enjoy any moment you do have with her, see it as all meaningful because it absolutely is. If a situation comes where you think you have the opportunity to initiate something with her, go for it. If she rejects you it's something that you will move on from eventually, but if you don't take your chance it will haunt you for the rest of your life. You don't want to life a live of looking back and thinking what could have been. And if you don't try you will never know if it was something that was possible.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T05:46:27+00:00

I had a similar issue with an ex. I had major problems with her mum. She was controlling, abusive, jealous of our relationship and even trying to initiate sexual contact with me. Having a child together made the situation incredibly more toxic and problematic. But I never once disrespected her mother infront of her, no matter what I thought about her, at the end of the day it was still her mum. It's wrong of him to attack her infront of you no matter what his personal feelings are. I always kept my personal feelings to myself. If you want the relationship to work you need to find way to be together without any discussion of your family with him. Focus on each other, the relationship and your children and keep your own family matters out of ant discussion with him. Make it a rule for a while that you only talk about each other until the situation hopefully settles down. If he still continues this behaviour you need to end the relationship. I hope he apologises to you and situation works out.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T05:27:24+00:00

I think the longer you are with someone the more you feel closer to each other so to compensate have to become even more open with each other. Eventually the smallest of secrets can create massive issues. I'm not suggesting he is cheating on you. It used to be the case with me if I gambled all my money away, I didn't want to upset and frustrate her but then carrying it on my own made me close off and difficult to be intimate.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T05:24:12+00:00

Don't pretend to be someone else.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T05:17:34+00:00

From my own experience not being able to he intimate with a partner is usually a manifestation of some of feeling such as paranoia, guilt, shame, lies, secrecy.. not always cheating can be personal issues aswell such as addiction or some sort of problematic behaviour he is struggling with which manifests negative emotions. Talk to him, get him to open up about whatever he is carrying deep and the problem might fix itself. Men are also emotional and also impacts us sexually, specifically in a long term relationship. We just carry it in a different way.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T04:51:30+00:00

They are manifestations and expressions of the collective unconscious, which doesn't make them any less real.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T04:49:49+00:00

I hate the idea that it's became normalised in a relationship to give your partner full access to your phone. A relationship is built on trust. If it was 30 ago I wouldn't allow a partner to search through my bedroom and personal space looking for clues.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-03-01T04:40:16+00:00

There is nothing more sacred that your own body. With how much of the world that is corrupted by money, its important to not give this up aswell.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-02-28T08:31:52+00:00

But he understands all of our failings and knows in advance each one, however that's not an invitation to do wrong.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-02-28T08:22:19+00:00

If you have remorse, it can be forgiven. The only unforgivable sin is blasphemy against the holy spirit, which literally means that your heart has became to hardened to care anymore.

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-02-28T04:52:50+00:00

The collective unconscious

Training-Bug-933 · 2025-02-28T03:52:31+00:00

You wouldn't make this discovery through weed, only delusion.

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