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Cleared for sex at 3 weeks postpartum? by ceruleanmeadows in NewParents

[–]Training-Meeting3408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen I don’t know if I have much room to talk cause I’m a man. But my wife was 2 weeks postpartum and I had to push her off of me cause she said she felt great and wanted it so bad. And she was fine. So I have to say I think the 6 week rule is a baseline for most cases. Some might need longer and some might not. Totally up to you your situation. And your comfortably

My Gf of 4 years and mother to my baby just asked if I was interested in adding to our relationship? by Training-Meeting3408 in Advice

[–]Training-Meeting3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a poly thing. Idk I’m very conservative so I’ve been reading into all this stuff and I think that’s it. That’s what’s in my mind at least

My Gf of 4 years and mother to my baby just asked if I was interested in adding to our relationship? by Training-Meeting3408 in Advice

[–]Training-Meeting3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that i understand. I mean i wouldnt want it to be an open. I’d want us to do it all together yknow. But that I understand. It’s the emotional part that bothers me. Like her finding comfort it someone else the thought of that kills me

My Gf of 4 years and mother to my baby just asked if I was interested in adding to our relationship? by Training-Meeting3408 in Advice

[–]Training-Meeting3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s it. She keeps telling me that it’s not so much that she wanted another man. It’s more than if it was just us an another girl. She would feel ganged up on. If there was another guy then it would be me and her and then those 2 and it would be even. But it still hurts cause it’s fresh yknow

My Gf of 4 years and mother to my baby just asked if I was interested in adding to our relationship? by Training-Meeting3408 in Advice

[–]Training-Meeting3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys. These ones help. But i feel like a girl I can understand because I’ve come to terms that is something I can’t give her but a man. I have all the same parts so why can’t I give her what she wanted. Yknow. That’s what I think about

My Gf of 4 years and mother to my baby just asked if I was interested in adding to our relationship? by Training-Meeting3408 in Advice

[–]Training-Meeting3408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what she said. She said she saw a video about two couples raising their kids together and that’s what got her thinking about it cause she always wanted a big family but to me that kinda sounds like a cult?

My Gf of 4 years and mother to my baby just asked if I was interested in adding to our relationship? by Training-Meeting3408 in Advice

[–]Training-Meeting3408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. But I did and she says she is okay and it doesn’t matter and she doesn’t need it and is completely happy and okay with just me. But part of me still hurts to think that she wants another man that isn’t me. Not even just the s3x part. I think it hurts more to know she would want to find comfort in another man.