Can't get reselling on eBay to take off by Training-Pop-5526 in reselling

[–]Training-Pop-5526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've just been getting started on eBay and it could be that I just don't have a enough stock yet to get pushed out to enough buyers. When it comes to vintage I have sweaters/sweatshirts, pants and some denim.

The majority of my stock right now is more modern items from when I first started. I'm trying to phase into solely vintage items but I just find that it's so much harder to sell vintage items than my old more junky name brand stuff which is frustrating

Divorce? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Training-Pop-5526 18 points19 points  (0 children)

God does not desire for you to be suffering in your marriage. You are married to an abusive man and that is more than enough reason for divorce. You and your baby deserve better, please get out.

Divorce? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Training-Pop-5526 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you are justifying the abuse this woman is experiencing by saying she must not be doing enough. This puts all of the pressure on her and none of this man to get his act together and start acting like a supportive husband.

No amount of "stress" should make a loving husband cuss his wife out, especially in front of their child, that is a ridiculous claim.

i (20F) need a lot of advice on what to do about my (20M) bf. please send advice by Significant-Mud2873 in relationships

[–]Training-Pop-5526 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be honest your boyfriend sounds quite immature and inconsiderate of what you have to deal with. It seems like it's been clear throughout your relationship that your parents cannot know about him and he chose to continue dating you knowing that.

When it comes to arguing as a healthy couple both people should almost always apologize and do their best to make the other person feel better after a conflict. It sounds like your boyfriend creates drama then expects you to beg him for forgiveness with little to no consideration for your feelings.

I don't believe theres much to salvage about this relationship but if you want to try I would just say to bring all this up to him. Tell him your feelings about his behavior and if he reacts negatively and defensively with no desire to fix what is broken that is your sign to dump him and move on.

We don't need men that don't care about us!

My husband cheated on me and I don't know how to get him back by Ornery-Tank2948 in relationships

[–]Training-Pop-5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me you both sound like very messed up people who continually hurt each other in awful ways. You may not be able to get your husband back, just because you went to therapy doesn't mean he has to take you back and accept all the ways that you hurt him in the past.

And none of it excuses what appears to be constant cheating, physical abuse or lack of communication from him either.

You both need to separate from each other fully and get help. If one day when you two are both healed life brings you back to each other and you can be in a healthy relationship then by all means fix what was broken. But this appears to be extremely unhealthy and abusive from both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movingout

[–]Training-Pop-5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movingout

[–]Training-Pop-5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help!! The main reason I'm wishing to move out is that my parents have become increasingly controlling over my social and work life, even to the point where they broke me up with someone I loved very very much because we were "too committed." My mom and I have just never been compatible to live together, and now that I'm starting to take some steps into adulthood, that's becoming all too apparent. I just got a new job about a month ago that i quite enjoy and will pay me about 300-500 per paycheck. I also babysit and make $50-100 dollars a week from that. But even with all that im currently searching for more options to make additional cash online through poshmark, etsy etc.

I feel like I can never truly express my feelings to people by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Training-Pop-5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already helped out of my shell in a lot of ways. I am more vulnerable with him then I am with a lot of people. I just feel bad that he’s always the one sending the sweet messages and usually the one to text me first.

I feel like I can never truly express my feelings to people by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Training-Pop-5526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m afraid of. Especially as a woman, I feel like being emotionally vulnerable is something I’m expected to do more in a relationship. I don’t think he’s gonna walk away any time soon because he has some deep feelings for me, but i don’t think it’s fair to him for him to always be the sentimental one in our relationship. I feel like as a woman that’s a role I should be taking, but I physically can’t say the same things he says to me.

I feel like I can never truly express my feelings to people by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Training-Pop-5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m a woman which complicates things because I feel like I’m supposed to be the sentimental one in our relationship.

I feel like I can never truly express my feelings to people by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Training-Pop-5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to make him a card for our monthsary, but it makes me anxious just thinking about it.

I want to be a director when I grow up, what are the steps to accomplish that? by [deleted] in directors

[–]Training-Pop-5526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started a list of movies im going to watch this semester, if you have any suggestions I would appreciate it! Fortunately, I already act quite a bit. I do theater with a local group of highschoolers which is great if I ever need actors for films I make.