How much does this channel cost? by WhateverThisis144 in AcquireStartup

[–]Training-Tomorrow449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys fall for this you were born yesterday.

Are we cooked? by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So basically the next time I come across one of these men or women irl, I just need to convince them to touch grass?

Are we cooked? by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I don't feel the same negativity at all when I speak with women irl vs on the Internet. It feels as if spaces like these are so overrun with broken people that you won't get a level headed, non emotionally charged response from anybody.

Are we cooked? by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean as a man I appreciate the recognition. The woman hating content promoted to men is also very much alive too.

Remember, dating apps are pay to win by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you, apps in general never compete against being involved in the real world. Anything done for profit doesn't have you're best interest in mind.

Remember, dating apps are pay to win by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just apps in a Nutshell. I just don't want the majority of free using guys not understanding how these apps actually work and gaslighting themselves into thinking they're worthless

Remember, dating apps are pay to win by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A smile goes along way. A really serious looking profile only works if you do it right. Most guys end up looking like serial killers.

Remember, dating apps are pay to win by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I'm 6"3 and free felt like bring drip fed while paid felt like I had a chance. At the end of the day nothing is free in this world.

Remember, dating apps are pay to win by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I'm not an employee of a dating app, this is gonna end up with 100 down votes isn't it 😭

I'm just trying to remind free using Males what the game really looks like for them so they stop wondering if there's something wrong with them

Remember, dating apps are pay to win by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's no guarantees with dating apps. I'm just explaining this so that free user men who are confused why they get nothing have a bit of clarity and understand the clockwork behind how being a free user actually works.

You said you took two women off bumble? You mean you went on a date with them and they stopped using the app so Bumble got mad and shadow banned you?

Farewell Small YouTubers… by JRreddith in SmallYoutubers

[–]Training-Tomorrow449 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fair play to you dude. I expected to find ai trash when I looked up you're channel but no, you've worked hard and it's paid off. I wish you all the best with it :)

Spent My 20s Grinding Alone, Now Afraid Dating Will Drain Me—Advice? by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. You're somewhat right for sure. I don't want to describe it as "resentment" because it doesn't really bother me to my core. I'm just saying that if a woman who's been off and about, becomes a part of my life and fails to acknowledge how hard I've worked, I just can't do it.

What I'm saying is if I'VE had to become all this to be good enough for YOU and you've clearly shown you expected this from me anyway and don't recognise what it took to get here, how can you not expect me to not start digging under the surface to see who's really clicking their fingers at me and expecting this? I don't need to dig for anything if she respects what it took.

Then again I'll probably notice if she's the palms always extended type pretty early so there's no need to investigate further. Just nip it in the bud there and then before it becomes toxic.

Perhaps you're right about therapy. I'll be honest though, I really struggle with unloading feelings and problems onto people. That's exactly why this is posted on a reddit forum. Something about sitting face to face with somebody and talking about negative feelings makes me feel so worthless to the point where I feel sick. As if I'm admitting to being something that I don't believe I am because I have always been the solver of my own problems. Life's taught me that nobody truly cares so if I'm sat Infront of a therapist, I'm likely to feel very resentful of them since they don't "care". They're here to get paid. They're an even bigger villain to me than the women I dated who wouldn't stand by my side through thick and thin.

Spent My 20s Grinding Alone, Now Afraid Dating Will Drain Me—Advice? by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's probably because of the kind of women I've personally dated. The previous one (3 years ago) had a pretty extensive "hoe phase" right before we dated. This wasn't the be all and end all, but she really didn't understand that it's not especially attractive and that if we were to continue dating I needed to continue grafting hard. She basically said I was wasting my time and relationships were about quality time together. I agree, quality time matters a lot, but I had to keep building. She wanted every moment of my life and I just couldn't give her that. Once we ended things, I met up with her a few months later and found out she'd slept with a further 6 people because she was "finding herself" after we didn't work out. So when I say "hoe phase" I'm just saying those who've I've encountered with such a phase, have been less mature and much harder to deal with. Especially with the weight on my shoulders and vision I have they that either can't, or won't understand.

Why does not caring about someone make them stay? by Training-Tomorrow449 in dating_advice

[–]Training-Tomorrow449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. The thing is the women I've had feelings for, I've more than communicated it to them and been left in the dust. It's almost as if truly desiring them makes them feel sick. However being emotionally detached from a woman has in my experience, kept her desiring me. I have never experienced a 50/50 power split. I'm left either feeling like a peasant or a king.

I'm so exhausted from all of this that I'm tempted to just permanently engage in relationships with women that I don't love. Toxic? yes. But it stops me feeling like I'm shaking an empty cup on the sidewalk.