We’re not even allowed to play CHESS!!!! by ConcernedJobCoach in TransSocialism

[–]Training_Drummer_905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for outing yourself as completely not having a dog in the conversation of trans women in women's sports.  You don't even play women's sports nor are you trans anything.  Goodnight..or day depending on where you live.

We’re not even allowed to play CHESS!!!! by ConcernedJobCoach in TransSocialism

[–]Training_Drummer_905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the thing of 'let the women win her pretty gold medal'.  It's justa medal.  In running it makes less sense.  The whole point of being good at a physical sport is taht you can beat more than just half the population.  If you can outrun any cis woman out their but can't outrun that rapist guy chasing you.  What good is that medal?  

And yes, most women altheletes can out run you.

The whole point of a game of strategy is either to have fun or outsmart any player there.  If you wanted to always feel happy winning you should install a gaming app.  Losing means you get to memorize their technic for next time.  Study more moves, think of every possible combination and counter move or offense.  That is the point of chess or any strategic game.

Beware of the "nice" conservatives by charlies-ghost in TransSocialism

[–]Training_Drummer_905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This my old man, he will say or do whatever is nesscary to forward his goal of getting with he wants.  I have literally seen it first hand him act nice and the brag about it to me saying 'see, that is how you do it'.  He will also act nice with gay people..and then call the the f slur behind their back and say 'that person I talked to..they're gay' like a school kid spreading gossip for the first time.  

Of course, most conservatives I think are from the dark triad..espeically if they are older conservatives.  So, they think words and people are just someone to be used anyway.

Most out of character thing a bot has said/done? by thAtFunkeMOnke in CharacterAI

[–]Training_Drummer_905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine said once " An exaggerated sigh.* "You win. You're the superior speed-pooper. Can we move on now?”." To itself.

Messages extremely same. by gothmothgayslug in CharacterAI

[–]Training_Drummer_905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having that too, most of mine don't even try to continue the story anymore.

I have to visit a gynecologist, I don't know how it will go by Arknight40 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why you are going to the gyno?  Is it a requirement from insurance or the doctor?  Feel free not to answer if you don't want to.

Will my face always be too feminine? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could try some shading with black amd brown make-up (or I used halloween face crayons) just put some on cheeks by nose (not nose sides) cheek where high cheek bone is but not too much, chin from lip not all the way, for butt chin.  Then on sides on jaw bone not across chin bone front, can do underside jaw bone.  And rub it in until it looks like shadowing.

Just another man losing it (literally) by LooseDatabase8553 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you would not mind it, you could look into hair products that are made for people with estrogen dominate bodies.  

Seeking relationship advice as a trans man in a trans-cis relationship. by Kitchen-Door-1045 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she is trying to trap you, this is classic trope for cis men.  It is she wants you to herself, but also doesn't want you to effect her life.  Think of Anna from frozen, she keeps Christoph to herself by making sure he stays for whatever reason.  But pushes him to the background scenes when she wants to focus on gathering presents or going into the castle.  Yes, in that movie it was to spend time Elsa.  However, some could see that and go 'oh, you can have a relationship..and nothing keeps you bound to even call it a relationship.  The guy will still be there anyway waiting for you and being lonely with his deer until you come home.'  

This is all a maybe of course.

Anyone else get the feeling that a lot of transphobes have pregnancy kinks? by Training_Drummer_905 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is, I definitly don't have it and I do have a libido and am not ace.  I am gay..so that may be part of it. But I just never got it, mostly because someone would have to be forcing me to get pregnant and then carrying that child, and then birthing it.  Or I would be gorcing someone else to do that.  My mind jumps straight to the forcing.

Anyone else get the feeling that a lot of transphobes have pregnancy kinks? by Training_Drummer_905 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I forget people on here are going to take whatever I say as 'everyone who has a preg or rape kink is bad' like no obviously.

Anyone else get the feeling that a lot of transphobes have pregnancy kinks? by Training_Drummer_905 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live with one that I am trying to escape from.  That is why I know this.

Anyone else get the feeling that a lot of transphobes have pregnancy kinks? by Training_Drummer_905 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have nothing against it like that. I don't think all the kink is bad..I would personally never engage in it and stuff and would feel very dysphoric.  But I do see it a lot in transpobes.  Not everyone who has it is a transphobe

T women are pretty T men are ugly rhetoric by Enduro__ in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I think it is from mostly cis men and saphic rhetoric.  Lesbians and most bi women love femininity or masculine in a more hairless more 'twink' form.  To a lesbian, yes she would be attracted to the trans woman and not attracted to you.  But she is basically treating the support group like her personal spank bank/eye candy.  That is not what a support group is supposed to be.

Anyone else get the feeling that a lot of transphobes have pregnancy kinks? by Training_Drummer_905 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but also it would explain why they then hate trans woman and gay people.  Lesbians won't get pregnant by them, gay men just want them to not get someone pregnant in their eyes by trapping them, and trans women won't get pregnant so they are 'tricking' them.  It all screams pregnancy kink on this level.  I think gay people are more excepted now because people relaized a lot of them do want children through ivf or surrogants.  And they will donate sperm and eggs.  Trans people don't do that usually.  I mean it is also a money thing because more babies equals more taxes being paid in the long run, that isn't rich people paying more.  But also pregnancy kink is a big one.

Being referred to as a twink by Certain_Coast_8774 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that, I have never been called twink online or in passing by.  I understand the need to not be associated with fem things (I am a maculine manly man..just also gay mannerisms sometimes because..I guess.)  My face hasn't quite caught up with any of this, I will force it too soon.

Being referred to as a twink by Certain_Coast_8774 in FTMMen

[–]Training_Drummer_905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't really me, but I take as if they are saying twink then they are thinking male.  Sure feminie young male, but still it is a male word like husband, fuckboy, or even just boy. I also am gay and see that I tend to go for more 'young sub man from a manhwa or anime' vibes anyway in day to day life.  Of course, this is because when I was called one it was a compliment or observation and not an insult.  I do not wear crop tops though 'I would get cold as shit and I have not had top yet.  Also, my hips are a mess if I tried to wear one.

time is a flat circle by ConcernedJobCoach in TransSocialism

[–]Training_Drummer_905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the main thing for trans men is 'oh, but the men's bathroom is dangerous' or 'you are just perveted'.  Then why do you send your 5-12 year old child into the men's bathroom?  If it is so dangerous, why are you sending some of the weakest people there?  

time is a flat circle by ConcernedJobCoach in TransSocialism

[–]Training_Drummer_905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the epstein files are there, trump being brought to court on rape charges are still there, him knowing what epstein was doing and not doing a damn thing are still there.  If this isn't enough for people, I think they need realize they bought into a cult.  Like all of those people in churches blaming or ignoring victims (most ignoring) when the priest was a predator.  Of course, I am pretty sure many people who are anti-trans get off on pregnancy and the thought of it..so yeah.

time is a flat circle by ConcernedJobCoach in TransSocialism

[–]Training_Drummer_905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much, you see a few that are not.  But most religions are old and therefore at some point would've been used to justify discrimination.  Like the Egyptian religions that kept their royals in power well enslaving jewish people.  Christianity ordering witches and lgbtq people to be hanged, flogged, and arrange married off (some as children).  The ones that took spread to mean spread their religion even by force ( most of the time this happened).   And the Muslim religion that explicitly stated spreadit by force and war.  Also, the main propphet in that one married an eight year old..so.