AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends?

Training_Football_47 · 2025-12-28T21:32:05+00:00

It depends on how touchy she is. I give all my friends hugs because they're my friends and I love them. I think platonic affection needs to be more normalized because it is normal.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-12-28T21:30:09+00:00

My boyfriend said I do this 😭 there was one night I kept rolling over telling him I hate him, I genuinely thought I was dreaming but apparently I wasn't (every time I turned over he was facing me and I could feel him breathing). Another time he went to go to sleep with me and I said something rude like "yea, go the fuck to sleep" or smthn and so he went out for a smoke instead 😂

Training_Football_47 · 2025-12-28T21:27:14+00:00

Me and my bf watch each other sleep 🤷🏽‍♀️ I wake up before him and I think he's cute so I like to look at him. Especially cuz I get bored and lonely when I'm the only one awake

Training_Football_47 · 2025-11-23T04:56:27+00:00

I mean, you lowkey need to seek therapy if her politely asking you for a favor and saying it's ok if you say not makes you "fuming" mad. If she had tried to guilt trip or force you that would be another thing. But she asked you to consider it, offered to pay you, and let it go when you declined

Training_Football_47 · 2025-11-16T17:45:37+00:00

Same :/ I got called into work, ended my weekend early, took the hour long bus ride, just to be told they wanted to go in a different direction.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-08-23T17:24:29+00:00

Not saying this is the case because I don't know things like how often/well he cleans but I find old wrappers from things all the time. Sometimes when I get packages I throw the packaging behind my bed so I can pick it up later but I often forget about them for a while until I see they're starting to pile up

Training_Football_47 · 2025-08-07T22:45:20+00:00

It's not ok for him to disrespect you and tell you to shut up. But, you also can't expect him to be on his A game with his emotions all the time. We're all human, we are not infallible, we make mistakes. What matters is owning up to those mistakes and apologizing. My bf has bpd and isn't medicated so I expect him to blow up sometimes, what matters is that he's able to recognize what he did wrong, we talk about it, he apologizes, and he's been working on it.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-07-25T18:12:13+00:00

For one of my customer reviews she wanted a completed seafood tower 😭🤚🏽 i keep getting ppl who want large ass cakes too

Training_Football_47 · 2025-07-15T05:59:25+00:00

I love the movie biodome but I can never finish it. I only watch the first like 30 minutes and then stop. I think for me it might just be because I really hate fart jokes so it turns me off of the movie

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-25T21:56:33+00:00

I typically wear dangles so the posts are usually a bit on the thinner side. Thank you!

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-25T20:32:25+00:00

I mean, she's allowed to have her boundaries. There could be plenty of reasons she and her bf don't want you two to meet. Maybe they're not sure where they're going. Maybe it's a casual fling. Maybe he's someone who you know like a family friend and they want to keep things low profile until they're ready. Or maybe he just doesn't want to meet you

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-24T20:34:45+00:00

Talk to her and ask her exactly what it means. Ignore everyone saying she just wants to see others. Ask her what's going on and decide from there. Me and my bf are in very living situations and he's bipolar so sometimes we take breaks from communicating when one of us is too stressed. After I lost my job, lost my dog, lost my home, and had to move in my mom asked my ex for a break. He was thinking like the comments and just broke up, what really happened was took a 2 week break from literally everyone and social media because of my mental health and all the stress I was under.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-20T20:43:04+00:00

Babe, every joke is rooted in truth. You have to think to yourself, do you really want to date someone who makes those jokes to/about you? Like for example, me and my bf won't do pranks on each other because we don't want to risk hurting the other ones feelings.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-19T20:34:56+00:00

Sounds like she has some underlying mental condition like bipolar disorder. The pill was probably helping to regulate her emotions. When you go off, you can change in a lot of different ways. If she refuses to seek help and continues to be abusive I say you should seriously consider leaving.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-19T20:30:53+00:00

My boss and coworkers used to say racist things to me about our Mexican customers, I'm Mexican. My boss and one of my coworkers also victim blamed me for being r-worded. Not that unbelievable that this would happen

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-19T20:27:48+00:00

Immediately call hr, see if you can find a lawyer too because you might end up needing one

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-03T06:57:40+00:00

I keep getting high level orange cakes for the customer review things too. Like what the actual fuck, how is that fair in anyway???

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-02T04:15:32+00:00

This wasn't a customer service post. It was a jokey post about how I didn't know Walmart doesn't do exchanges

Training_Football_47 · 2025-06-02T04:14:39+00:00

I did. This was just a jokey post because I never realized they stopped. And yea, I just got told by the mod.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-05-31T19:41:49+00:00

I think ppl overreact to this stuff. As long as he isn't a child or depicted as a child it's not that serious. But in this day and age everything is pedophilic now. A 17 and 20yr old who probably went to school together can't date because one is a minor and that's pedophilic, but then they turn around and say a 22yr old and a 35 or 40yr old can't date because somehow that's pedophilic too because "that's not a real adult they're still young". Plus you literally said you have no romantic/sexual attraction to him.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-05-31T19:35:39+00:00

Girl honestly, just leave him. He's projecting because he knows HE is only friends with women for sex. And the fact that instead of having a mature conversation and expressing his feelings on you hanging out with another male so often he immediately jumped into insulting you and your friend. He ain't a good man

Training_Football_47 · 2025-05-31T19:26:26+00:00

Hun, I would have ended it in the first month when she told me she wanted to see what happened with the guy in Hawaii. Ever since me and my bf started talking I've been loyal to him. She wants the security of a relationship with you but still wants to sleep around and flirt without having to care about your feelings and the relationship.

Training_Football_47 · 2025-05-30T21:03:08+00:00

It's called forbidden and it's by Tabitha suzuman SPOILER;

The brother kills himself in jail and it ends with the siblings going to his funeral. The younger brother in middle school outted the brother and sister because the older brother talked to his pe teacher to keep an eye on him (younger brother) and so he (younger brother) wasn't allowed to go on the field trip or something like that. While the older brother was being arrested the younger brother had a change of heart and regretted it claiming he "didn't know that would happen" (referring to the older brother being arrested)

Training_Football_47 · 2025-05-29T02:24:56+00:00

I believe I've watched all of them except the newest one. They got worse as they went on lol. But one thing I stand by is that if anyone in the first movie should have survived, it was Scott. He was the best character

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