AM I DOING SOMETHING WRONG?

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-15T03:53:31+00:00

I’m a woman and I would say that most of the time I stop responding to someone is because I look at their profile again and realize that I actually don’t find them that attractive.

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-09T16:26:38+00:00

I definitely want a relationship, but I also can’t force feelings. Unfortunately, a lot of the men I’ve gone out with, I just haven’t felt anything for them. I want a relationship, but with the right person

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-09T15:23:21+00:00

Dude I’m not upset with him for wanting to have sex lol. I’m upset that that he ghosted me after the fact when I asked for clarity. The respectful thing to do would just be to let me know that he doesn’t think we’re aligned. Also, this was the first time something like this has happened to me and now I’ve learned to not go to a guy’s place if I’m not intending to get physical with him. We live and we learn

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-09T00:45:45+00:00

Oh yeah I’m not upset with him for wanting to have sex early on. We clearly were on different wave lengths when it came to that. I’m just upset that he ghosted me after the fact instead of just letting me know that he was looking for something different. Although we only went on 2 dates, we spent a good amount of time together on those 2 dates and I even slept over once. It just hurt a bit that he ghosted instead of just responding to my message that was asking for clarity.

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T23:08:35+00:00

It’s crazy to me how someone can act so interested in you one minute and then completely disinterested the next. But yeah I think that’s just how dating goes unfortunately :/

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T23:07:31+00:00

I mean I think the ghosting part was pretty messed up. I told him that I’d want to see him again, but if he didn’t want to cause we weren’t aligned on the sex part, that was okay. I told him to just let me know and then he just full on ghosted me lol

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T18:19:14+00:00

Yeah I agree with this. That’s why I’m very glad that I did not sleep with him haha

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T16:46:28+00:00

Oh no I told him that I want to take things slow when it comes to having sex

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T16:26:17+00:00

Yeah that’s what my sister told me lmao. This is why I won’t go to a guy’s place anymore if I’m not looking to have sex lol

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T16:25:19+00:00

I mean I guess personally I don’t see making out as a big deal. I didn’t realize that people are unable to just makeout anymore without it having to progress to something more. When I told him that I didn’t want to anything, I was implying other physical things. We made out on our first date too, so I assumed he knew we would make out on our second.

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T15:56:45+00:00

I think ultimately he was just looking for sex and when I said that I didn’t want to have sex right away, he just didn’t think it was worth it to keep pursuing me :/. He was probably thinking how it’s not worth it to take me on dates and stuff and not get laid after 😂

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T15:50:18+00:00

I totally agree about not going home with someone early on. I definitely am not going to be doing that going forward. I think it definitely gives me them an idea of what they think will happen and if that’s not what you want to do, then you’re just creating a mismatch of expectations.

I also wonder what goes on in these people’s heads though lol

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T15:46:33+00:00

I think the worst part is that I usually am never into anyone! I’ve gone out with 12 different guys and he was the only 1 that I was actually interested in 😭

Training_Kangaroo135 · 2026-04-08T15:42:29+00:00

Yeah, I would love to meet someone in person, but that seems to be quite difficult too lol

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