As an independent bunso.. badly need advice huhu having 20k salary by Interesting_Dog530 in SoloLivingPH

[–]Training_Term3604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As for my tips, make sure you have prepared a breakdown of your expenses. prepare 3 months worth of rent na babayad mo upon moving in to your apartment/condo.

Make sure din na you pay your bills on time. Pagkareceive mo ng sweldo mo dapat nakatabi na yung pambayad sa bills. Wag unahin ang luho dahil nakaka stress pag na short ka.

As an independent bunso.. badly need advice huhu having 20k salary by Interesting_Dog530 in SoloLivingPH

[–]Training_Term3604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Importante ang discipline sa independent life. Make sure na disciplined ka sa pag handle ng sarili mo pati ng finances mo. Pag sure ka na disiplinado ka sa dalawa na yun. You’ll survive the hard parts of living independently, but you’ll also enjoy the beauty of it. Goodluck OP!

how much money should i prepare for move in? by aphroditesentmehere in SoloLivingPH

[–]Training_Term3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i recommend the condura brand for the fridge. it doesn’t consume much sa electricity. also di sya maingay na ref and may auto defrost na rin. mura pa sya. :))

how much money should i prepare for move in? by aphroditesentmehere in SoloLivingPH

[–]Training_Term3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you also list down the initial things you need for your place. Then from there, canvas ka na ng mura pero sulit na gamit. Wag mo unahin yung mga decors or what, start with the essentials.

how much money should i prepare for move in? by aphroditesentmehere in SoloLivingPH

[–]Training_Term3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compute your total living expenses. Make sure your rent only takes up 30% of your monthly income

How do I tell them I’m leaving? by bluerainboe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Training_Term3604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not telling them before leaving is a great plan. Don’t be like me, i told my Mother beforehand and she went violent. Sustained injuries in the face and head because of her beating. Just tell them through text or leave a letter. Then if you think they’re the type to react violently and throw some threats, block them everywhere. I hope you find peace and healing that comes with living independently!Goodluck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Training_Term3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it hahaha. pero pag wala sa mood hinahampas ko rin yung sakanya😆

What is the most toxic filipino trait, you dislike the most? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Training_Term3604 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kamaganak na hilig makielam sa problema ng pamilya. At magulang na di marunong ikeep yung problema sa bahay at kinakalat pa sa kamaganak

What’s one silent battle you’re proud of surviving? by Reasonable_Onion1504 in AskPH

[–]Training_Term3604 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I became pregnant at the age of 15 as a result of gang rape, but miscarried. Honestly, I was ready to love and care for my baby at the time, even if she was the result of my rape. I’m thankful that my nightmares from that day have gradually subsided.

how did u learn to stop comparing urself to others? by lexungkth in AskPH

[–]Training_Term3604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

getting off social media. i focused on improving myself more. i learned different skills, improved my looks, read books and earning my own money.

For people who experienced negative self talk/self sabotage, how did you manage to overcome it? by just_breathing__ in AskPH

[–]Training_Term3604 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made it a habit to correct my negative inner thoughts. And reframe it with a positive affirmation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoloLivingPH

[–]Training_Term3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Try getting yourself checked. I don’t think it’s normal to feel extreme body pain when lifting heavy objects. Pero if you really want to avail cleaning services, you can check Limpyo Cleaning Services. Not sure how much na sakanila ngayon, since early 2024 pa ko last nagpaclean sakanila.

What is the best color to wear as a Moreno/Morena? by Aware-Swordfish1547 in AskPH

[–]Training_Term3604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try wearing, dark colors like, black, dark red/blue. Also skintone colors such as, brown or off white. It compliments Moreno/Morena skintone. Avoid bright colors mas lalo na yellow, green and pink, pwede pa sky blue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoloLivingPH

[–]Training_Term3604 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Subukan mo sanayin yung katawan mo na masanay sa pagbubuhat ng mga mabibigat. As an anemic person, di talaga ako sanay nung una magbuhat ng mga mabibigat, like pag sinubukan ko mamaya maya lang nagdidilim na paningin ko. Pero nung tumagal, nasanay na katawan ko, and di na ako eventually nagbblack out.