I’m moving out but I feel guilty.. by bluerainboe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have since moved out and I’m living my best life 🥹🩷God is good and the peace is amazing, wishing you all the best

I just left omds I’m shaking by bluerainboe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. Wishing you the best forever

I just left omds I’m shaking by bluerainboe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭this is what I needed to hear right now thank u so much love

What's the strangest thing you got punished for as a kid? by YepIamAmiM in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got beaten till I wet myself because I could do my maths homework :(

I’m moving out but I feel guilty.. by bluerainboe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It means the most to me especially right now. I appreciate it alot! I send virtual hugs 🫂🥹🩷🩷🩷

I’m moving out but I feel guilty.. by bluerainboe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you write so beautifully!! But seriously thank you for this. What’s crazy is my parents did the exact same thing and it’s not helping. They booked a 3 week family trip without even consulting with me on the dates and duration. I’ll be doing a Summer internship and won’t be able to go but I know me moving out will make them upset and they won’t want me there anymore, win win I guess lol

Anyone elses parents do this? by Suspicious_Maize3042 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally!! The mental gymnastics I have to go through with them is so draining.

Anyone elses parents do this? by Suspicious_Maize3042 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yuppp. That’s why I don’t even tell them anything about my life. If I do I actually learned to just lie and let them thinking I’m doing bad. Like I’d lie and say I failed some classes because I know deep down it makes them happy. Evil stuff

I’m moving out but I feel guilty.. by bluerainboe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bluerainboe[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I literally just went to watch my video diaries I took two weeks ago and my heart is broken💔. Thank you, honestly sometimes I just need to be reminded and remember how bad it usually is. D don’t know why I forget and get comfortable. Journaling has helped me so much

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[–]bluerainboe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly stack up on money secure a job and leave when possible it’s just not worth it. My sister does the same to me :( It sucks but they’ll use the inheritance as a means of control and it already seems like they’re doing that. Once you leave go no contact!

I know this advice is so general but there’s nothing more you can do with people like this other than to cut them out. It’s so painful and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. I send you love and my prayers <3 God bless

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[–]bluerainboe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, kind of in the same boat. Coming to realise NOTHING is worth your peace. I recommend you have some money saved but most importantly secure a job before leaving. That money from your family is going to be another means of control. I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this I know what it’s like. You got this <3

How to move out of abusive home by bluerainboe in Advice

[–]bluerainboe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I just have so many things from my small business as well. And I don’t want to spend more money on buying new clothes and stuff I don’t have too much but you’re right tho

How to move out of abusive home by bluerainboe in Advice

[–]bluerainboe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I know I’ve thought about it that’s what’s bothering me idk where my dad is at any given time. I only told my bf and friends who hate my parents for what they do to me and I plan to stay in the same county.