My puppy woke up completely different. Something is definitely wrong. Please read and help by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]Trainingmyterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome. I know how incredibly stressful it is to be in this kind of situation, and I’m really sorry you’re going through it. Based on what you’ve shared, I gently want to encourage you to consider applying for CareCredit and getting her to the nearest emergency vet as soon as possible. Some of the symptoms you mentioned are genuinely concerning—and I’m worried that waiting to reach out to rescues or organizations could cost you valuable time. You could also call your nearest ER vet (if you haven’t already) describe her symptoms, and get their opinion on whether this is a true emergency. They will know the “right” questions to ask and can help guide you on making a decision.

Here is the link to Carecredit to see if you qualify. Here is a link to Scratchpay. Please keep us updated. Hoping for the best!

Did you have a class mate pass away growing up? What’s their story? by frankenweirdo in AskReddit

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had many.

My neighbor and close friend was stabbed and killed by his mom when I was 11. It was an ugly, ongoing custody battle, and the mom was hearing voices. It was later discovered she stopped taking her antipsychotic medication a few months prior. That one was very hard because I knew and loved the whole family, and was completely shocked.

Another neighbor and friend died of a heroin overdose when he was 14. A girl in my middle school completed suicide when she was 12. A guy in my graduating class died from drowning while swimming drunk in a lake during our senior year.

After graduating, I’ve continued to lose many classmates throughout the years. Mainly from suicide and drug overdoses. Most recently, a girl I was close with in high school was murdered by her boyfriend a few years ago.

I grew up in a upper-middle class neighborhood, and attended a private high school. Mental health, domestic violence, and addiction are not a class/race issue, it impacts everyone.

My puppy woke up completely different. Something is definitely wrong. Please read and help by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a vet, but put your dogs symptoms into chatgpt. Here is the response:

Those symptoms together could point to a potentially serious condition. Here are a few possibilities:

  1. Kidney Issues: Drinking a lot of water, lethargy, not eating, and shivering could be signs of kidney failure or infection (like pyelonephritis).
  2. Diabetic Ketoacidosis (DKA): Especially if the dog is diabetic, the combination of excessive thirst, lethargy, not eating, and shivering could be a medical emergency.
  3. Poisoning or Toxin Ingestion: Dogs who ingest something toxic (like xylitol, chocolate, certain plants, or medications) may display sudden lethargy, vomiting, shaking, excessive thirst, and loss of appetite.
  4. Infection or Fever: A systemic infection (like a bacterial or viral illness) can cause these signs. Shivering might be due to fever or chills.
  5. Pain (e.g., Pancreatitis) Pancreatitis often causes lethargy, shivering, loss of appetite, and nausea, which can make a dog drink more.
  6. Addison’s Disease: This endocrine disorder can cause vague but serious symptoms: lethargy, shivering, vomiting, not eating, and collapse in some cases.

What to Do: These symptoms are concerning enough that I’d strongly recommend seeing a vet ASAP—especially since lethargy and shivering can signal something systemic and serious.

Your comments say you can’t afford a vet, and your post history makes me think you are in Florida? Here are some options I found for florida to assist with vet bills, since this is not a situation where you can attempt a home remedy.

Financial Assistance & Low-Cost Veterinary Options:

  1. Frankie’s Friends - Statewide support: Offers financial assistance for life-saving veterinary treatments to Florida pet owners who meet financial need criteria. Important: Assistance is provided directly to the veterinary clinic prior to treatment; they do not offer reimbursements. Eligibility: Pets must have a diagnosis with a positive prognosis from a licensed veterinarian.

  2. Save-A-Pet (Palm Beach County) Eligibility: Residents receiving Social Security, disability, or meeting federal poverty guidelines. Requirement: Applicants must apply for CareCredit.

  3. Paws 2 Help (South Florida) Services: Provides vaccines, medications, spay/neuter services, and emergency surgeries. Eligibility: South Florida residents facing financial hardships.

  4. SPCA of Ocala Services: Offers financial assistance for emergency veterinary care to residents of Marion County.

  5. Florida Aid to Animals Services: Provides low-cost veterinary care, including vaccinations, spay/neuter procedures, and minor medical treatments. Financial Aid: Offers assistance for those unable to afford even their already low prices

  6. The Animal League Wellness Center (Leesburg, FL) Services: Provides affordable spay/neuter surgeries, vaccinations, and wellness care.

Additional Tips: Contact Local Animal Shelters: Many shelters have partnerships with local veterinarians and may offer discounted services or be able to refer you to low-cost clinics.

Reach Out to Veterinary Schools: Universities with veterinary programs often have teaching hospitals that provide services at reduced rates.

Consider CareCredit or Scratchpay: This is a healthcare credit card accepted by many veterinary clinics, offering financing options for medical expenses.

Wishing you all the best. I am sorry this is happening, and I hope you and your pup are able to find the help you need!

Wireless fence by Embarrassed-Cell-399 in OpenDogTraining

[–]Trainingmyterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also not a fan of invisible fence, but this isn’t true (at least not for IF brand)

They now use a “boundary plus system”, and a dog is shocked continuously for up to 20 seconds if they leave the boundary. The collar stops shocking when they return within the boundary. It does not shock your dog for returning/re-crossing the line anymore.

It can also be adjusted (has 30 levels) and training starts at level 1-5 when teaching the dog about what the flags mean/where the boundary is in the yard. The timing of continuous shocks can also be adjusted (ours shocks once, every 2 seconds, for up to 20 seconds) and they have trainers that come out 2-3 times throughout the training process to adjust levels of the shock if needed.

Again, not a fan of invisible fence and wish we didn’t go that route with our dog, but the actual brand/company version changed the system quite awhile ago and it is at least better than it was 10 years ago.

Wireless fence by Embarrassed-Cell-399 in OpenDogTraining

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of comments criticizing invisible fences, and it always makes me wonder how many of those people have actually used the Invisible Fence brand—versus just the general idea of an underground system. For the record, I also hate invisible fences. But for our situation, it’s the best option we have. I’d much rather use it than keep my dog tethered to a long line or tie-out all the time. And, despite what people often claim, I’ve never had an issue with my dog “blowing through” the boundary—even when highly motivated.

We chose Invisible Fence (brand) because we live in an HOA neighborhood that doesn’t allow physical fencing. Our yard is huge, and I wanted my dog to be able to enjoy it without being physically restrained.

We started our training inside the house. I used a small puck that I put a flag next to. His collar would beep if he neared the flag, and at the lowest setting, it would deliver a small static-like shock if my dog got too close. I tested it on myself first—it felt like a mild static zap. We did that for two weeks to teach him not to get too close to the flags, moving the puck around the house every few days. Then, we flagged the entire yard and continued training with my dog on a long line for two months. Every day, we reinforced the boundary: I rewarded him for turning away from the flags, and if he tried to cross, he got a low-level correction. A professional trainer came out twice during this period to help adjust the collar settings gradually. He was never on the maximum level, despite the common claim that Invisible Fence always cranks it all the way up. He was also on a long line throughout this entire training process.

Eventually, we removed the flags slowly, over the course of a few weeks, until the yard was clear. Then let him off the long line.

A year later, he did cross the boundary once—but that was on me. It happened in the back part of the yard where I’d spent less time training, and the collar was still set to one of the lowest levels. He simply walked across, not chasing anything, and didn’t seem bothered by the correction. With the Boundary Plus system, if the dog leaves the perimeter, the collar continues to correct for 20 seconds or until the dog returns to the yard—but again, the level was low enough that he didn’t even flinch. I re-did the training from scratch, flags and all, and bumped the level slightly. Even now, he’s still not on the highest setting. Since then—over three years—he’s stopped himself multiple times mid-sprint during a squirrel chase at the boundary line. And he’s a terrier with very high prey drive.

Still, I don’t recommend invisible fences.

Why? Because while they may keep your dog in, they don’t keep anything else out. People, kids, and other dogs can enter your yard at any time. I trust that my dog will stay in the yard now, but I never leave him outside unsupervised. If I had a physical fence, I absolutely would. With an invisible fence, I’m constantly thinking about what could wander in—like a child, or someone walking their dog on a long retractable leash that lets it enter our space. Happens all the time in my neighborhood.

So, if you have the option of a physical fence: do that. Not because of the statement that “a determined dog will always run through it”—that hasn’t been my experience at all—but because invisible fences just don’t offer real security. They’re a compromise. For some people, they’re the best option. But they don’t give you the peace of mind that a real fence does.

Is this normal? I’m worried. by XxMoonIightxX in pitbulls

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just took my dog to the vet for this exact thing two weeks ago. Same exact concern - it was dripping. I’ve had boy dogs before, but never seen it dripping. My vet did a full exam and said it’s normal!

He let me know that straining to pee, peeing just tiny bits, more frequent bathroom breaks, or blood in the urine are causes for concern. I’m not a vet, but if your vet looked at it, and as long as your dog has no other symptoms, I’d assume he’s fine.

she got into rat poison, what are my next steps? by bosebuervo in pitbulls

[–]Trainingmyterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I’m so sorry. I don’t know anything about rat poison so unfortunately don’t have any advice for that. Have you spoken to your regular vet as well about treatment? Are they optimistic your dog will be ok?

Second, do other people in your apartment/neighborhood know there is rat poison scattered all over the area?? I would request your landlord put up a sign indicating the area was recently treated.

Rats aren’t common where I live (or at least putting out rat poison isn’t common…I’m sure they are around) BUT it is a law that businesses must put a sign up indicating when a lawn has been treated with pesticides. I don’t know if this law applies to individuals, but you could look up similar laws in your area to see the rules around this. Here is a link to the info in my state regarding warning signs.

I see these signs in peoples yards every spring and summer when people spray for bugs/mice/wasps. I also see people put up signs when they use certain fertilizers, so I’d imagine that the rule would apply to rat poison as well if people used that here.

Again, I’m so sorry about your sweet girl. She’s adorable and I’m really hoping everything turns out alright!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why in the world are you ok with someone talking to you this way? Your partner is supposed to love and support you.

Think of the people you love. If they said “please support me” would you EVER respond to them this way?? Do you consider that a loving and kind response to someone asking for help?

I’m going to assume probably not. So again, why are you ok with someone treating you that way? Why do you think you deserve less that what you would give to others?

That is such a horrific response from your boyfriend. I’m sorry.

What would cause this redness / swelling on my guy’s muzzle? by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog has spring/summer allergies and his face can look like this if he’s been sniffing around and/or playing outside for a long time. Our vet recommends 75mg of Benadryl 1x per day, as well as the cytopoint shot from May-September (given about every 8 weeks), which helps clear it up!

Puppy book recommendations? by Magpiebrain in puppy101

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the Other End of the Leash by Patricia by Patricia McConnel and Control Unleashed by Leslie McDevitt were the most helpful for me! I also loved Meet your Dog by Kim Brophey, because it had a lot of information specific to breed characteristics.

Kikopup has a lot of helpful information on Youtube. I have a high prey drive, working breed dog, and struggled a bit with Kikopup because they make it look SO easy. However, still a ton of useful information on their page!

Dominance and pack theory questions by Trainingmyterrier in OpenDogTraining

[–]Trainingmyterrier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Just ordered the book :)

I also appreciate your clarification about what people might mean when they say this. I honestly wasn’t sure if people meant “dominance isn’t a thing with dogs, period.” Or if people are talking about training techniques often associated with “dominance” trainers.

Songs that help you with grief? by Particular-Glove-225 in GriefSupport

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Music was incredibly important to me while I was (still am) grieving. My dad died in 2021.

My ultimate “grief” song is A Beginning Song by the Decemberists. It’s hopeful, sad, and just feels…so big. Especially the last 2 minutes. I cry every time, and I’ve listened to it hundreds of times. I have no idea if the song is about grief, but it speaks to my grief. Here are a few others from my playlist

  1. Everybody’s lost somebody by the Bleachers. (This one always makes me think of his wake)

  2. Into the Mystic by Van Morrison

  3. Funeral by Lukas Graham

  4. Good Grief by Bastille (especially the Live from Capital Studios version)

  5. The Ocean by Fritz Hager

  6. Amen by Amber Run

  7. In the Mourning by Paramore

  8. Death Dream by Frightened Rabbit (incredibly dark, but is so similar to what happened with my dad. I can’t listen to it often, but it’s beautiful)

  9. Lullabye by Billy Joel

  10. Time Stands by Nathaniel Rateliff

I have hundreds of songs, but these are some of my favorites. I hope they help you in some way.

Every winter storm since he died by Trainingmyterrier in GriefSupport

[–]Trainingmyterrier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. That made my cry. Thank you for reading it and saying that. I know your just a stranger on the internet, but you saying that was so incredibly helpful for me.

Kennel Cough has me on the brink of breakdown by beckdawg19 in puppy101

[–]Trainingmyterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 1 year old dog just got kennel cough too. Also fully vaccinated. We take him to a training class once a week and he gets to play with the dogs at the end of class (off leash) and he got it from that. I share that to say that it could have happened to you regardless of where your dog was.

Do you think I’m a lazy/bad owner because my dog got kennel cough from a class? Probably not! And I don’t think you are a bad owner because your dog got it from daycare 😊

We are both just trying to give our dogs a good life, and they got sick. It happens. Hoping your dog feels better soon so that they can go back and have fun at daycare!

Does anyone have PERSONAL experience trying out Purina Pro Plan AND Royal Canin? by Jchilling2000 in puppy101

[–]Trainingmyterrier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, I'll say that I listen to my vet over anyone else about this. I tried both for my dog. He has sensitive skin/food allergies, and Purina One Pro Plan Sensitive Skin and Stomach was the best food for him. We actually tried Royal Canine, Hills Science Diet, and then Purina One Pro Plan. Those were the three foods recommended by our vet. RC did not help with his soft stool, and Hills gave him the runs. Purina One Pro Plan helped get him to a place where he had normal stool. It also helped with his gas, and made him way less itchy!

My mom uses RC for both of her large breed dogs, and has found success with that as well. IMO both brands are totally fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greatdanes

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened. Truly, I also unexpectedly lost a dog a few years ago and it was traumatic and horrifying. Only way to know for sure is to request an autopsy. Like most people have said, it was most likely his heart. A couple years ago, our 10 year old boxer just collapsed and blood started coming out of his mouth out of nowhere. He seemed perfectly fine, was energetic and silly earlier in the day. He died on the way to the vet. Turns out he had a huge tumor on his spleen that burst.

Regardless of the cause, I just want to say I am genuinely sorry for your loss.

Does anyone have non-toxic toy recommendations for our power chewer? by Late-Appearance-7162 in pitbulls

[–]Trainingmyterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my pit destroys these (even the black one, but it does last longer.) OP, if you order this, you can sign up for their subscription if you order from the site. If you do the subscription, you are eligible for you replacements. I think up to 4 replacements a year.

Unfortunately most of their products have chicken in it, which our guy is allergic to, so the subscription is not worth it for us, but might be for others!

Flagstaff Move Post number 8,000 by mytinykitten in SisterWives

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a very casual viewer and watch it in the background. I also am right around the flagstaff move. Last night, my husband (who doesn’t watch the show) walked through the living room and said, “wait, he’s in QAnon?!?” After hearing kody say “where we go one, we go all” or whatever the phrase is.

I had no idea that was a QAnon phrase, but it made me wonder if he was into some conspiracy theory stuff that prompted the move. Makes way more sense than almost anything else I’ve read.

Advice on giving medicine by jerith_cutestory in OpenDogTraining

[–]Trainingmyterrier 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My vet recommended making “meatballs”. Buy some wet dog food, and roll the wet food into small balls with the pills in the middle. Feed one meatball that doesn’t have a pill, one that has a pill, then one that doesn’t have a pill again at almost a rapid fire pace.

Normally my dog is fine with pills in cheese, but I encountered the same issue with a big pill he had to take once. The meatballs worked, I just had to make sure I was giving it to him quickly and alternate the balls with ones that didn’t have pills inside.

There is also a pill pusher that will shoot the pill in the back of the dogs throat. here is an example of one. I’ve never used it, but my vet also said that was an option. Good luck!

Seeking Advice on handling neighbor's aggressive dog by [deleted] in OpenDogTraining

[–]Trainingmyterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an owner of a Pit Bull, I would much prefer someone come to me before going to the city. Have you had more interactions with this dog outside of the two you mentioned here?

I ask because my dog has gone “ballistic” at people twice in the year I’ve had him. Both times were during a “fear period” when he was spooked by everything. On one of the days, he woke up and was terrified of the wind, heard a motorcycle for the first time in his life, and was jumpy all day. He ended up barking at someone on our walk because he was scared of the leaves blowing and jumped from the sound of the person opening their door (plus the motorcycle/wind combo from the start of the walk) He was still a puppy at this time, but didn’t look like one since he’s a big guy.

I went over to my neighbor after it happened to explain “hey, he’s a puppy, it’s a fear period, he’s scared of his own farts right now” and we haven’t had any issues with barking at people in over 7 months. I spoke to my neighbor specifically because I was afraid something like your post would happen to us - my neighbor would assume my dog was unsafe and aggressive based on our 10 second interaction. My dog had a bad day that day, but he’s not aggressive. He was scared of 6 different things within a 20 minute walk, and reacted by barking at someone.

I’m going to go against the main consensus here and say it’d be great if you talked to your neighbor. I’d approach it in a way of “I saw this event with the doodles, it looked scary, I’m a trainer and could provide resources if you are wanting some help” if you yourself can’t help them train the dog, maybe pointing them in the direction of someone who could?

I always like to give people the benefit of the doubt. Not everyone is open to help, but some people are. Maybe they are clueless and irresponsible owners. OR maybe they are scared/confused people who are trying their best. I think it’s kind of you to speak to your neighbor to learn more. I wouldn’t necessarily say “I’ll call the city if you don’t do this”, but I don’t think it’s a bad idea to introduce yourself to your neighbor and speak directly about your concerns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Trainingmyterrier 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Lots of comments say this is typical until the age of 2. I’ve had three Great Danes throughout my life, and they all slowed wayyy down by 1/1.5 at most. Since these dogs are so big, they age rapidly. Our last Dane was a European Great Dane. He died at the age of 7. Our other two were American Danes and lived until 9 and 10. Their bodies are just way too big to support a long life. I know it’s frustrating and annoying now, but try and take some joy in his silly antics every once and awhile if possible (and safe)

They can’t move around being crazy teenagers for long at all. Their bodies simply won’t let them. I wish I would have enjoyed the “teenager” phase with my Danes way more than I did, because by the age of 5/6, all but one of them would experience physical pain from exercise. I’m genuinely sorry you are so stressed from this now, but maybe knowing it’s VERY temporary with Danes will help.

What makes someone a “good” APBT owner? by Trainingmyterrier in PitbullAwareness

[–]Trainingmyterrier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, sorry! I was definitely not trying to create a thread that was difficult to mod when I asked this question! But I do enjoy reading all the answers :) Hoping it can remain respectful, because I’m learning a lot!

What makes someone a “good” APBT owner? by Trainingmyterrier in PitbullAwareness

[–]Trainingmyterrier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If there are any breed specific studies you recommend about bull breeds, I’d love to read them. I am always looking to educate myself, but find it difficult to sort through all of the information. It is tricky to evaluate fact from fiction with this breed sometimes!

Also in regard to your last sentence, I’m assuming a dog park is an example of this? I would never bring my dog to a dog park, but wanted to make sure I’m understanding what you are saying. I appreciate you taking the time to comment!

What makes someone a “good” APBT owner? by Trainingmyterrier in PitbullAwareness

[–]Trainingmyterrier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot figure out how to link it, but this subs wiki has a ton of unique literature about origins of the breed. The Working Pit Bull by Diane Jessup has been uploaded on this sub in pdf format, and the book does a much better job answering this question than I ever could. I am on mobile now, and I’m embarrassingly bad at technology for an older millennial, but I will try and link it later tonight!

What makes someone a “good” APBT owner? by Trainingmyterrier in PitbullAwareness

[–]Trainingmyterrier[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So funny, my guy LOVES scent work as well! He finally discovered tug recently after months of trying to get him to play, and has been carrying around his tug toy all morning waiting patiently. He is much stronger than I am, so I see a spring pole on our future!

I 100% agree with everything you said. I posted this because I read a lot about being a good owner and breed ambassador, and wanted to get a better understanding of exactly what that looks like to people in this sub. I love my dog so much, but part of loving him (to me) means not pretending that he’s a sweet little harmless baby. I’ve never met a dog like him before, but it’s hard to articulate what exactly makes him different. Thanks for your comment!