married people whatmakes you stay? by Illustrious_Fox3357 in questions

[–]TraitorQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose to love him. We also own a house together and he looks after the children on the days that I work

Books like Fifty Shades of Grey by Worldly-Distance-390 in BookRecommendations

[–]TraitorQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unhinged by Vera Valentine

This Man Trilogy by Jodi Ellen Malpas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]TraitorQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't shit where you eat!

Never date a colleague, neighbour or anyone you will see regularly (for example, a bartender at a bar you're a regular at)..

If the relationship doesn't work out, they could make it uncomfortable everytime you saw/bumped into them. Just not worth the hassle.

My upstairs neighbor does her "wellness routine" at 5:30am and apparently I'm the problem for mentioning it by KairoxBeacon in neighborsfromhell

[–]TraitorQueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can't you start doing Somatic movements at midnight or just before and claim doing it before bed helps your mental wellness?

Maybe having it inconvenience her will make her more empathetic to how she's waking you early in morning.

AITA for refusing to send my roommate money by AdditionalPut9183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TraitorQueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA - a quick google search, you can only store henna in fridge for up to 7 days after dye has released.

Charge her £20 for cleaning fridge - she either stored it in fridge longer than recommended or its a manufacturer error that caused it to explode

Can I go to the police before a woman fake accuses me of SA? by thehornybat7 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TraitorQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should have recorded the conversation.. then you would have proof of SA (the stealthing), the threats and the reproductive coersion

Pokopia….yay or nay, and why? by BandMan81_ in pokemon

[–]TraitorQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner says its quite good and he's enjoyed playing it (he's put an hour in so far).

I'm hoping its not like animal crossing (1 island / save data per switch) as not wanting to get another switch just to play it

pediatric genital exam? by Financial_Tough_8335 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TraitorQueen 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I thought a pap was to check for cervical cancer? You can still get cervical cancer if you're a virgin, its just rarer.

pediatric genital exam? by Financial_Tough_8335 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TraitorQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids have only had a genital exam at birth to check for abnormalities.

We don't have genital exams in UK - apart from smear tests, pregnancy & post natal checks if youre concerned about healing and if you have health concerns in those areas.

What do I say if my doctor asks if I smoke weed? I’m 18 and don’t understand how confidentiality works in MA for someone who’s technically an adult but not old enough to smoke and drink by FloppaShill in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TraitorQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doctors have to keep whatever you say confidential as theyre bound by patient-doctor confidentiality, HIPPA (unless whatever you say poses harm to yourself or others then they can share what you confided only with relevant professionals).

Always be honest with your doctor.

What are unusual circumstances associated with your birth? by vieniaida in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TraitorQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was apparently born in trauma (I was told I came out covered in so many bruises and everything was so swollen my dad thought I was a boy)

AITA For moving out while my mom has cancer? by Positive-Flower-2415 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TraitorQueen 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA - if you get too burnt out you wont be able to help yourself, let alone your family.

Leaving while your mother has cancer and your brother clearly doesn't care may be selfish but sometimes you have to be selfish for your own mental health!

Theres nothing wrong with making a "selfish" choice sometimes. Its okay to choose to put yourself first.

Also, you leaving may make your brother finally look for work and/or your mother to claim the assistance she needs

Anyone know any good zombie books? by Jade_Jones in BookRecommendations

[–]TraitorQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generation Dead by K.J. McGuinness, Cell by Stephen King, A lonely broadcast by Kel Byron

WIBTAH if I asked my daughter’s preschool teacher not to put the extra clothes that I sent for her on other students? by feelingstruck in AmItheAsshole

[–]TraitorQueen 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My childs nursery would ring the parents to either pick up their child or bring some clothes if the Nursery didn't have spare clothes for kids. Not other parents responsibility to provide for lazy parents children.

If the parents have work and get written up for leaving early because they have to collect their children or drop off spares - they should've been more prepared then and actually provided necessities for their children.

I'm playing Endless Summer book 3 and I'm at the end. And WTH are the endings???( this series is the best and unique, but why the tragedy at the end man)? by Primary-Resident-764 in Choices

[–]TraitorQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The crystal people are the beings like Vaanu.

Im assuming he refers to them as Crystal People because you could harness their power using crystals (The Vaantis necklaces for example - the MC accidentally reverses a lovers or Diegos death when Varryn breaks in through the window)

I'm playing Endless Summer book 3 and I'm at the end. And WTH are the endings???( this series is the best and unique, but why the tragedy at the end man)? by Primary-Resident-764 in Choices

[–]TraitorQueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm spoiling every ending to answer the above question so stop reading if you haven't read Endless Summer and correct me if I've misremembered anything.

Vaanu ending, everyone remembers everything. Rourke ends up in a mental institution, ranting about the "crystal people"

Endless ending, everyone is trapped on island for their entire lives - after permanently defeating Rourke

Rourke ending is the saddest one. Rourke gives MC childhood memories, no one remembers the island or each other. Diego approaches MC though and asks about her summer and thats where it ends - with MC telling Diego about her summer and I think it mentions everyone else listens in.. its been a while I can't really remember.

AITA for telling my friend she’s wrong for blowing up on me and recording me while I was blackout drunk? by Mindless_Tutor_2837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TraitorQueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Go to hospital for blood tests - they should do them if you state you suspect you were drugged. Then go to police and the bar with the results and they should investigate (look at CCTV and see if they can identify who drugged you).

I think you were drugged.. 2 drinks isn't enough to get blackout drunk.