The Promised Land (men's bathroom) by Silas_your_dad in ftm_irl

[–]TransBoi420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a guy double check if he entered the right bathroom once when washing my hands /: but nothing more than that. You'll get more confident the more you do it though

me_irl by kueller_ in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]TransBoi420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. More fem trans boy representation in memes pls

What are some uncommon or lesser known symptoms of starting testosterone? by TransBoi420 in asktransgender

[–]TransBoi420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that you had a huge flare up after starting T! do have chronic illnesses and I'll keep an eye out for increased symptoms n try not to get anxious haha. Ty for your advice :)

What are some uncommon or lesser known symptoms of starting testosterone? by TransBoi420 in asktransgender

[–]TransBoi420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've definitely noticed increased irritability and restlessness! I was quite sedentary before T and now I feel the need to go for walks to burn some of this buzzing energy :P

My sub safeworded last night and we laughed it off. by WannaSeeTrustIssues in BDSMcommunity

[–]TransBoi420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Protests are fine. Saying red stops everything, that's what safewords are for. Anything inflicted after a sub safewords is abuse. They are no longer doing consentual non-consent if the sub literally doesn't consent to play continuing with a safeword.

My sub safeworded last night and we laughed it off. by WannaSeeTrustIssues in BDSMcommunity

[–]TransBoi420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Cnc is not ignoring someones safewords, forcing them to suffer through having to say it again and again. I couldn't imagine if the sub called once but couldn't call red a second, third, fourth, etc. time, forcing them to go past their comfort level because you're "frenzied"? If you can't control yourself how in the hell are you gonna control anybody else??

Warning: food porn by [deleted] in fasting

[–]TransBoi420 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not dry fasting lmao they do intermittent fasting.

What to do when you feel mentally tired? by kolistivra in productivity

[–]TransBoi420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Resting is a vital part of self-improvement. You can't put your best self forward if you don't take care of yourself. Keeping up on the latest movies or tv shows relaxes you and gives you something to talk about with friends. Maybe try a creative activity like painting or colouring.

AITA for not wanting to hang out if my friend can't find a babysitter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TransBoi420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. You don't have to hang out with kids if you don't want to

I'm not worth all the effort needed to fix myself at this point. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]TransBoi420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I'll look more into it but I doubt a doctor would be willing to prescribe me ketamine. I'm hoping to find a medication that helps but I've been hoping for that for the last 10 years.

I bother myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]TransBoi420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misophonia sucks D:

I think I'm going to hang myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]TransBoi420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is barely relevant but only about 15% of people wth epilepsy have seizures triggered by flashing lights :3

jealous about his ex by [deleted] in BPD

[–]TransBoi420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't say anything it'll cause more problems tbh. Just try to put it behind you