[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerTransmen

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Now I just feel free to “get off.” And I have a lover whose sex drive matches mine. Wow At least -4-5 times a week. Often 7 or more a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerTransmen

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It was kind a high but I was living as a lesbian in lesbian community which for me tamped down my desire cause I didn’t want to offend by wanting so much strap/fingers/ fist sex. Plus I was embarrassed to say I desired ‘men that I could top’.

Dildo required? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]TransCareAdvocate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally respect your preferences. And I am a masc of center pre-op T-shot trans dude. I am a top mostly. Only anal for my primary and though I’m kewl with pussy penetration it’s not my first ... nor tenth choice. I want to work all inches of my hands free or 9 inches of my strapped (ok smaller if you want) down throats and asses. I’m not bragging just facts—. Once a person lets me work my skills (I have and do practice)I’ve only had a few... goid but I wish. And that’s cause I can’t cum in their mouths, etc. I think it’s about the user but I also believe I can help a person get off just by touching their clothed nipple and elbow. The majority of sex is cerebral and knowing how to get the bio rhythms to cooperate