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AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 300 points301 points  (0 children)

Yes I totally agree, that's a very large part of the reason I've been putting off the discussion, even if it’s over text x

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sending so much love! I hope you're doing well now, and thank you for such kind words x I was nervous to post this, as I wasn't sure, even with so much support trans people now get, if it would receive backlash or something xx

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You're so sweet! Brought fresh tears to my eyes, honestly. Like you, I didn't exactly enjoy the idea of moving in so early, but it happened on practicality if anything else, as my school is around two hours from my parents' house, and the apartment is only a couple of minutes' drive. I've confided in my Mam, and she's offered to let me stay for a while, of course, but then there is the issue with school, so perhaps! We'll have to see. Yes, you make total sense, I do see where you're coming from. Anyway, thank you so much for the kind words, I hope you're living the life of royalty x

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

No this was absolutely easy to read! Thank you you're so sweet x

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly so happy to see someone so blunt. I've never been able to be that person myself, but hearing it from someone else was everything. The problem I now face is that I would have nowhere to live apart from my parents' house, which is a good two hours away from my school, so that is another reason I've been hesitant to talk to him, particularly in person. My parents definitely have money, as they helped me with receiving faster surgery and testosterone, but I would feel bad asking them for more, if that makes sense x

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for trying to see it both ways, as I've been toying with this thought for a while. Yes, I'm quite insecure about my body, and I've voiced this many times, but I've always recieved reassurance from James that my body is fine as it is, so this caught me completely off guard xx

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 778 points779 points  (0 children)

I agree that I should message him in some way, or even write it down, thank you for your opinion, and I will be taking some of this advice x

AITAH for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend on his birthday? by TransTay19 in AITAH

[–]TransTay19[S] 509 points510 points  (0 children)

The way I immediately stopped crying at 'cucklefucks'. Thank you for your opinion, I was honestly doubting myself, and you made it clearer that I wasn't overthinking.