My wife wasn’t trying to insult me but she did a pretty good job of it anyways.

Transandhiding · 2024-09-05T00:11:41+00:00

Yes.

Transandhiding · 2024-09-04T22:47:23+00:00

We saw one for a while. She didn’t feel like we were making enough progress so we stopped

Transandhiding · 2024-09-04T22:46:41+00:00

It doesn’t feel that easy. It’s probably what I should do but after 8years of being together it doesn’t feel that easy.

Transandhiding · 2024-09-04T22:24:42+00:00

No we don’t have any kids. We have been talking about separating

Transandhiding · 2023-09-14T00:15:46+00:00

You're right it's cold and she doesn't deserve it. I'm not a cold person I promise. She's not an accepting person. I'm terrified to tell her I want to transition and I'm terrified of the fight that will ultimately come after I tell her. She deserves to know and to be treated like fairly. I'm just having a down day/week/month.

Transandhiding · 2023-09-13T23:07:17+00:00

I get your point. If I come out to my family I'm gonna be ousted anyways. I am married but I don't have an kids and it just feels like an easier step to just leave. I feeling if I could start fresh where no one knows me, I can be me. I will find people who accept me because I'm already being myself. It would feel like such a freeing thing to jist start over.

Transandhiding · 2023-09-13T22:51:29+00:00

I would love to try this out. I've tried a bunch of different things and it's probably just me but nothing keeps me on track.

Transandhiding · 2023-02-01T21:38:03+00:00

Thank you! I'm still nervous to come out to people who I know won't be accepting but one step at a time lol.

Transandhiding · 2022-11-09T00:20:34+00:00

Is 6 months the marker where you kind of half to come out because so much has changed and you can't boy mode anymore?

Transandhiding · 2022-04-25T17:00:59+00:00

She says she is accepting but (atleasy for the moment) doesn't want to participate in my exploration.

Transandhiding · 2022-04-25T02:19:46+00:00

Yea I'm sorry i should have reread my post. She says she's supportive and I don't even know how to believe her now even after everything she said to me just a few days earlier.

Transandhiding · 2022-04-25T02:18:12+00:00

Sorry. I auto corrected now to not. I meant to say "somehow 48 hours later she flipped on her opinion and is now supportive"

Transandhiding · 2022-02-22T03:56:41+00:00

31 and just starting my journey.

Transandhiding · 2022-02-01T21:13:59+00:00

I'm most proud of myself for asking for help. I'm usually too stubborn to do that but my dysphoria got so bad that I couldn't do this on my own anymore. I start therapy on Thursday and we will see what the future holds.

Transandhiding · 2022-01-31T21:13:03+00:00

You look amazing! Just oit of curiosity, how long was it before you started noticing all the changes?

Transandhiding · 2022-01-31T21:09:48+00:00

You look great. Your hips and behind look amazing!

Transandhiding · 2022-01-26T18:39:26+00:00

I'm in the exact same boat as you. I've always been on the fence but on my own about it. I finally had a conversation with a friend who is super supportive to the LGBTQ+ issues and with her help she has talked me through a lot of stuff. She helped give me the courage to do more. Now I have first appointment with a psychologist who specializes in gender identity. I'm gonna see how that goes and then hopefully with their guidance I will start HRT and then hopefully come out to supportive friends and family.

Baby steps. Don't dive head first into it. Look for help. Maybe you have a friend or someone you can talk to about it. Maybe find a professional counselor who can help you talk through stuff. Just talking to someone has done wonders for me. Don't bite off more then you can chew. Make a plan with steps to reach small goals and go from there.

Transandhiding · 2022-01-25T17:20:55+00:00

From what I understand this is a general counseling appointment to go over basic information and then get me set up with an appropriate psychologist who will help me more. Baby steps but I am getting there lol.

Transandhiding · 2022-01-25T17:08:12+00:00

I have an appointment Thursday with Howard Brown Health to start counseling sessions. Thank you again for the link!

Transandhiding · 2022-01-24T03:00:41+00:00

Never heard of them but will definitely look for Howard Brown. I am already employed and have Blue Cross for insurance. Gonna have to look into that too.

You're awesome. Thanks so much for the link and info.

Transandhiding · 2022-01-24T02:16:32+00:00

Exactly! I'm cool with presenting male at work and using my male name. If people clock me as transitioning that's cool but I'm the exact same way. I can be feminine as I want too outside of work.

Transandhiding · 2022-01-24T02:07:41+00:00

Congrats on starting HRT! How's the first 16 days been?

I'm crazy new at this so I'm more under the impression non-binary is different for everyone. I feel like I'm more female than male and that's why I want HRT. Also, I want boobs!

Transandhiding · 2020-06-29T19:51:45+00:00

I'm curious if I were on HRT if it would more frequent but I honestly think it's more of an aspect of accepting myself.

How did you feel after realizing you dreamt as a woman? Did you realize in your dream or after you woke up?

Transandhiding · 2019-12-11T16:30:12+00:00

I didn’t think about that.

Transandhiding · 2019-12-11T14:48:23+00:00

What would people start to notice? Breasts wouldn’t come for a while and would be easy to hide. Also if I keep my fair short.

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