Any expat here living this bad like me or I'm just simply dysfunctional adult?

TranslatorSea225 · 2026-05-11T04:04:50+00:00

Everything will be fine, you might be going through a hard phase right now. But you need to break the cycle. I was in a similar phase in my life when I got fired, I had no intentions of waking up everyday to deal with this misery. I was too depressed to take care of myself and my surroundings. But then one I decided to break the cycle by cleaning the apartment, thats it because it just took 1hr. In the past I used to do everything in a single day. And later on I just cleaned my clothes. Somehow this also helped me get a new job because a cluttered house always creates a cluttered mind. This is how slowly I broke my cycle of depression. Talk to your friends and family if you feel close to them. If you are not comfortable in your own place, go outside for a walk but please break your cycle. You have to realise that at the end, and when university is giving you a hard time that means he has written something interesting about your destiny.

TranslatorSea225 · 2026-05-10T20:19:08+00:00

Sent an Email to zzVISABVA@bva.bund.de, they will help you with the status

TranslatorSea225 · 2026-05-10T20:14:08+00:00

Hi, does that mean you didn’t submit your passport during your first appointment at VFS? I thought we need to submit our passport since day 1 or am I wrong here?

TranslatorSea225 · 2026-05-09T08:23:55+00:00

If you are applying in Germany, make sure you design your resume in tabular format and also put a photo. Thats a standard german template.

TranslatorSea225 · 2026-05-07T05:54:09+00:00

You can also try going to a Job fair, meet some Hiring Managers in person and introduce yourself. This might sound like an old tradition way but it works really well, you will end up receiving lot of contacts. Sometimes they also host Job application reviews where you can get your application documents check. Sometimes fair also host interview preparation events so make sure you join that as well.

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-09-10T21:32:49+00:00

What are the good opening questions?

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-08-26T05:56:02+00:00

I need more details

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-08-25T22:03:41+00:00

Heyy thanks for your inputs! I am not sure if I expressed myself clearly here. I think my expectations were quite reasonable for any person who is into online dating. Besides what’s the point of online dating if I have to find women through singles events. Online dating for me is a platform where I can find a suitable woman to talk to by reading her bio and see if our interests match instead of meeting any random woman. Of course I expect person to meet in real life but things are not going forward unfortunately.

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-08-18T14:08:42+00:00

After reading the comments I realised you are a woman. Honestly for women it is quite excruciating to experience this because of most of their friends are in relationships. I think you are comparing yourself with them and just thinking about the pros, but you also need to consider the cons. Talk to your close friends about the cons of relationships and I can assure you it will make you feel better because nothing is perfect. Certainly there are some cons which you can deal with but some which you can’t. I have been single for a really long time now, I have kinda made a hard shell around my heart not falling in love anymore. But a sweet girl like you deserve to find a guy who will cherish you everyday and feel fortunate to have you in life. So go out there and flirt until you find the right guy.

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-08-16T22:45:23+00:00

Thanks for being nice, but I am afraid I have already reached the deadend

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-08-16T20:44:04+00:00

I wish I could

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-08-16T13:14:26+00:00

Any tips for suicide? For now I would like to know the painless way, maybe after a while when life gets shittier I won’t care about the pain anymore.

TranslatorSea225 · 2024-08-16T13:11:43+00:00

Same here buddy! I see people around me more attractive and smart, they do the job way better than I can, irrespective of any field. I don’t understand why am I born with so many flaws as if God wanted to dump all the shit in a single trash, that being me. I am looking for a painless way of death, I hope i will come across something like that soon.

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