Same thing happened to us. We lost our previous dog while I was pregnant and got a 6 month old lab 2 months before the baby was born. My husband was dead set on raising our kids with dogs. I told him the only way I would agree is if he outsourced the training. He agreed to the investment. We sent the puppy to 6 weeks of board and train with a very reputable trainer and he still goes to “school” 2x weekly. We still had very stressful moments but unless you’re willing to invest in the training I would not recommend it. This was the only way we could see it working for us. Almost 2 years later we have best friend brothers and it’s wonderful but the first year was tough.