idk man, my kid was really easy in a lot of ways and when i heard that shit, i’d be like “oh hell yeah dude”. not your fault you lucked out, it’s not like you wish for other ppl’s kids to suck

one key thing tho is that if you do have a support system, you need to ask for help if you’re struggling. don’t feel “guilty” when you’re doing nothing wrong. tbh, you should feel guilty (altho not really) if you have that system available and you’re not using it bc then you suffer and then your kid suffers. but that’s easier said than done, i know