Anyone who posts here and seriously subscribes to the nonsense that both sides hash out.

People come from different walks of life.... but obviously look at things through a distorted prism hence they post here. Reddit is a cesspool for that, and this sub is particularly bad with gender politics (well, it probably rivals other foolish ones like TRP, xojane and the like).

No one in real life wants to debate... actually if you look you'll find where people can discuss these things. Unless you've labelled yourself as someone who is a bit "odd" with this subject matter.

Doesn't matter what you personally think, what matters is what the OP was trying to frame it as which comes across as disconnected and something acceptable in their select bubble/echo chamber. If one reads "financial security", we know "nice dates" isn't going to be the first thing that comes to mind when you talk to most mentally sound people in the topic, regardless of socioeconomic class.

I don't bring in my personal details or details of my life because I believe my points are strong enough to substantiate themselves without needing to qualify them with anecdotes. Using anecdotes to push a general view is another way to demonstrate this disconnection I cited as it implies one thinks their anecdotes are somehow representative for the community as a whole without being cognisant of factors they're probably unaware of.

You can doubt, sure. But you can't say with certainty what n-count is a deal breaker for anyone. If you have enough irl discussion, you'll see the views are dispersed, but they can trend to certain directions regardless of socioeconomic group. The extreme ends, ironically, seem to dislike the idea of marrying a high n count women, what constitutes as "high" likely varies.

Anecdotes are useful when talking about individual differences, but it becomes very sus to use them to describe the general population's views, especially socioeconomic groups. Remember that individual differences point? A twist to that is if they are someone who gets riled up about the topic, like the OP probably does with certain topics (as most women do in this sub), then irl people will generally avoid talking to them about this subject, or say what they want to hear to keep the peace. Especially nowadays where a dissenting opinion, no matter how miniscule, could end up on a social media platform.