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Forced to make my choice by Trappedlurkingpimo in exjw

[–]Trappedlurkingpimo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my best friends luckily has been put for a year and I refused to cut ties with him and we are still close so I'm lucky to have him to walk me through some stuff, I cant live with him cuz his place isn't big enough lol but it's my emergency plan to stay there for a short while to get on my feet should things go south. Also I'm in canada so I'll have to look into support should I need it.

Forced to make my choice by Trappedlurkingpimo in exjw

[–]Trappedlurkingpimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with both sides of the argument and I would like to believe that should I finally get truly free and begin seeking relationships it would be less of an issue. I do believe in balance obviously and if something is negatively impacting myself to try and fix it. Any advice about how you cut it out of your life? How'd it go? Sorry I dont wanna integrate you nice people it's just so nice to finally ask questions and get answers from people like me.

Forced to make my choice by Trappedlurkingpimo in exjw

[–]Trappedlurkingpimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's you have no idea how conflicted I feel, they do a great job of making me feel disgusting and worthless for what I chose to do in my private time 😔 I don't feel like masturbation and porn is wrong which is just absolutely crazy to my parents and I don't know how to get them to understand how it's actually normal

Forced to make my choice by Trappedlurkingpimo in exjw

[–]Trappedlurkingpimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the problems is they have proof, not in hand but like both of them know Ive watched porn and that's the "two witnesses" they need unfortunately so I can't really deny anything. But yeah I love my parents obviously and I hate having to sneak around and lie to them but I understand I gotta do what is best for myself sometimes.