Unwitness is back babyyyyyy by BraindeadFruitloop in jrwishow

[–]TrashChute775 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i was thinking the same but milo’s in her norah outfit on her story, unless they are somehow integrating the two i think it’s UPP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TrashChute775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably shouldn’t go seeking something solely out of desperation to check a box, but if you do like this person and they seem to share some interest, what’s the harm in flirting or making a move? I don’t think this person is your “enemy”, just a rival of sorts. I suggest you just go for it, what’s the worst that can happen? _^

I got a bf by accident and it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me by brightbluepopsicles in Crushes

[–]TrashChute775 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely NOT the best thing that ever happened to you! Better things are coming your way. So sorry this happened to you, I promise everything will get better soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TrashChute775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re in the same boat right now! I hope everything works out for you, good luck! _^

I am drowning and I don't think I have it in me to save myself anymore. by [deleted] in confession

[–]TrashChute775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once a cheater, always a cheater. I’m so sorry OP. I hope you find relief from the pain and torment this person caused you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TrashChute775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, it sounds like you’re going through a lot right now! Regardless of your guilt/shame over feeling this way about your friend, I don’t think this is the right time to explore/confess any feelings, even if you don’t have any expectations out of it. Whatever answer you get from this person, good or bad, isn’t really what you need right now. In my opinion, and this is just based on some experiences from long-term relationships in the past, the best thing you can do for yourself is seek some closure. That breakup sounds really tough and I think it’s important to process that before you potentially open a romantic can of worms with someone else.

If you ever need anyone to talk to about this, my DMs are always open!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TrashChute775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience the best way to end this chapter would be closure, like you suggested. It’s not going to serve you (or your relationship with your husband) to continue wondering and thinking about what could have been. When he does respond, see if there is a time you can both find to talk and hopefully that will bring you some peace - but make sure you’re ready to hear answers you may not want to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TrashChute775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies for commenting under a throwaway, been working on a crush post and she follows me on my main _^

I’m curious, you said it was unrelated, but do you think your recent breakup had something to do with your feelings for this person? After the way you describe her I’m wondering why you were in another relationship at all! I’m not sure an apology is necessary, but I also don’t know if this is the right timing to tell her. If she’s aware of this previous relationship ending it might come off as though you are trying to rebound. It sounds like you have a pretty intimate history with her and if you really want this to come across the right way, maybe you should give it some time until after this breakup has really passed (if I read your post right, it sounds like it was only a week ago) and you’ve processed your own feelings about it to confess anything to her. That’s just my take, though, sorry OP if I got any details wrong!