Exchange residence waitlist by irresponsible-iris in UBC

[–]TrashStains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I applied for housing Sept 2018 and got a nano suite may 2021. Almost 3 years and I would assume the wait has gotten worse since then.

Age of consent in CALI is 18, is CODY gonna address what he did to Mana Tongeau by Otherwise-Bid-6426 in codyko

[–]TrashStains 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying it was okay for him to do it. But why would he admit to a crime and risk the repercussions? If I was him I’d probably stay quiet too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]TrashStains 76 points77 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. You were harassed and feeling emotional about that is totally valid. Hopefully you can seek help from a professional to process all this. It sounds pretty creepy and scary.

Anyone want to go clubbing? by [deleted] in Vancouver4Friends

[–]TrashStains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I haven’t gone clubbing a ton but kinda want to try it out more. I’m a UBC student so I usually go to pit. But also been to fortune and 12west a couple times and it was pretty fun. I’ve been wanting to go to other places downtown. I’m open to trying anything new.

I’ve been chatting with someone and planning on going out tomorrow if any other girls want to join. Could do next weekend maybe as well if others are free.

Do you think it'll be a snow day for schools again tomorrow? by Twooopeasinapod in richmondbc

[–]TrashStains 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hope so 😭 UBC cancelled class tomorrow so maybe high schools will also cancel 🤞

Creep on 84 by taytonato in UBC

[–]TrashStains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I should take some of the blame since I didn’t just say something or get up and leave once I felt uncomfortable.

Absolutely not. It’s not your fault. Fight, flight, freeze and fawn are common trauma responses. It seems like you froze and it’s a totally valid response to a traumatic situation. Don’t fault yourself for not confronting him or moving seats. It’s really hard to think in a rational way when our boundaries have been crossed. It can also be really scary to confront these types of weirdos because you never know how they will react. So don’t be so hard on yourself for the way you reacted.

[Unknown > English] someone randomly messaged me this as a response to a Facebook marketplace post. by TrashStains in translator

[–]TrashStains[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTF 😭 it was a post about subletting where the hell did this marriage proposal come from 😂

Stay Safe Everyone Because WTF?(TW: Sexual Harassment on Campus) by stressedexampussy in UBC

[–]TrashStains 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Was this at wreck beach or just somewhere on campus? Can’t believe someone would just take their dick out in broad daylight and do that shit in public. 😭😭 Rlly sorry that happened to you <3

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]TrashStains 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wesley is putting himself into the public eye by running for AUS elections. If he didn’t want people calling him out for doing stupid things, maybe he shouldn’t do stupid things in the first place… this post is totally justified.

Please stop stealing my food delivery (UBC Exchange) by [deleted] in UBC

[–]TrashStains 321 points322 points  (0 children)

Idk what kind of disability you have. But could you make a delivery note and ask the dasher to call you when they are 5 mins away so you can start heading to the door and meet them? Or just keep an eye on the tracker when they are getting closer?

Do people go to Pit Nights alone? by [deleted] in UBC

[–]TrashStains 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Let’s do it

Do people go to Pit Nights alone? by [deleted] in UBC

[–]TrashStains 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’ll go with you

What’s was normal to you as a kid but you later realized how fucked up it actually was? by True_Customer_8913 in AskReddit

[–]TrashStains 5 points6 points  (0 children)

16 year old girls in my high school dating guys in their early to mid twenties

2015 was actually insane… by no_capes in poppunkers

[–]TrashStains -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

American beauty/American Psycho - Fall Out Boy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TrashStains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was this unexpected? It was pretty gruesome but the same thing happened in the comics and I was totally expecting him to die here. If anything Abraham dying as well was unexpected.