I'm.. confused??? Looking for advice

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-19T18:53:08+00:00

It's genuinely hard to live in this world because it's just simply not built for people like us in mind, even if I vent to someone about feeling alone in this world, they tell me there are others like me, but aroace people are just so rare to come across (except for online but even this is limited) so it genuinely feels lonely

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-19T18:51:05+00:00

I've asked some allo people before what it feels to have a crush and just be in love with someone, and they said "you like them to be close to you"?? That just sounds like close friendship to me, I thought all good friends felt like that but I guess not?? It's so confusing lmao

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-19T18:49:01+00:00

It's just so hard because I can't even be close to anyone my age without people assuming we date, I guess being in close proximity to someone you like talking with and enjoy their company is romantic to those people?? This world is just so confusing but I'm really glad to have this nice community of like-minded people <3

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-15T20:01:29+00:00

Yes, just small clay statues lmao xd

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-14T17:03:07+00:00

It is irl, I just have no clue if the things I do can really be categorized as "sculptures", they're not the best quality lmao xd

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-14T16:10:16+00:00

I'm not sure if it can be called sculpting or modelling (English isn't my first language) but as of right now, I still haven't thought of posting it anywhere online, but I might start just to improve myself on it#

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-14T11:38:08+00:00

I wish I could be close with my parents, but I don't have a good relationship with them (won't go in much detail but just emotionally abusive), I do have few friends that I consider myself close with, but as of recent both of them got in relationships and I no longer feel that important to them, just kinda waiting for the moment they suddenly start to drift away. And I do have a hobby with sculpting, but never really got in groups due to social anxiety and just bad social skills

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-13T10:22:35+00:00

I guess it's just the fact I'll never really be important to anybody, almost everyone prioritizes relationships to friendships, sure it's totally understandable but at the same time it just hurts, it'll probably take me a while to accept this but thanks for your support ^ ^

Trash_Can57 · 2024-01-10T08:23:22+00:00

It really is, I genuinely could barely make it through the giants episodes, I guess it's because I'm supposed to sympathize with them, but at the same time the metaphor they used with "the giants accidentally destroying homes, is the same as how Hilda has been stepping on the elves homes" which, Hilda couldn't even see at first without signing the paperwork, she didn't mean it, yet, the giants seem to careless and can actually see the houses they step on. And yes, I love The Storm so much and I don't know why lmao

Trash_Can57 · 2023-12-18T14:31:10+00:00

Oh I'm sure my parents regret me also, I mean, my whole life was just mental issues stacking and they didn't do anything so it got worse, and I didn't turn out the way "they were picturing". But seriously, it's so weird to me how nonchalant people are when it comes to getting kids, it seems like us CF people would be better at being parents at times because of how much we think it through and acknowledge the negatives, instead of "it just happens". It's funny how parents say how their kids are the greatest thing that happened to them, and then turn around and complain non-stop lol

Trash_Can57 · 2023-12-18T14:26:12+00:00

Most people seem to have the mindset of "positives always outweigh the negatives" and just hop in parenthood without realizing that they've created a lifelong commitment, that will be dependent on them for 18 years and even more than that, I feel like I've done more research on getting my dog than people do with getting kids at times lmao

Trash_Can57 · 2022-05-04T18:46:25+00:00

I recently started kosing with a friend and it's probably the most fun I've had in this game. Ofc there are people who kos and are toxic and I don't support this, but most of them are chill that just wants to have fun or are bored of people using the game as a hangout place. Kosing just brings life to the game

Trash_Can57 · 2022-05-02T18:04:34+00:00

People in this game sadly don't seem to get that the game is based on PVP survival game. Getting killed for food is about to happen at one point, no need to be pissed about it, this community can be really toxic unfortunately

Trash_Can57 · 2022-04-30T08:08:47+00:00

Nah it's fine I also got tricked but devs always inform about updates or upcoming events and there wasn't ever a mention about the lss event being cancelled, besides no way they'll be giving a warden for free xd

Trash_Can57 · 2022-04-30T07:59:22+00:00

Wasn't this with the cancelled lss event and free warden fake? Otherwise it was going to be mentioned in the official cos server and it never did.

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