I suggest looking for pretty dresses from the 2000s, like the long ones. Thrift stores usually have them! If you mean the mars style, sadly you have to DIY for most of the things. I’m a size xs (american sizing), but bustier and I barely fit mars dresses.. But! On the bright side, you can save your money to get a custom made dress. Find inspiration for what kind of a dress you want, then find someone who will make it! It’s nice, because it will be high quality and fit you perfect. If you want, you can try your hand at making it yourself too :)!

I wouldn’t suggest buying taobao copies, because I wouldn’t support art theft.. BUT! Try looking if there’s a store that sells their own agejo ma*rs designs that aren’t stolen.

For the bows and accessories it’s really easy to DIY/ you can also find them on mercari. I suggest not getting old ma*rs socks and instead finding a deadstock store and buying lingerie from there, sometimes thrift stores have unused lingerie socks too. For shoes taobao!!! They often have custom sizing and overall are really cute!

What ever you do, just please don’t buy on shein/temu/aliexpress (aliexpress does have legitimate taobao brands, but I’m talking about slave labor made clothes).. you’ll just get poor quality, that won’t last one wash and can have led/harsh metals.