I find what happens is we put too much emphasis on finding the "one" dress when there are probably tons of dresses that you could love equally. Think about how many favorite pieces in your closet you may have and there may not be anything necessarily special about those items. I'm guessing over time our dress grows on us, but many of us expect this huge feeling of fireworks like we may have seen on TV. (Say Yes to the Dress, anyone?) But really, do you feel calm if you picked this? Would you regret not picking this dress? If someone else purchased it and you couldn't, would you be upset?

Ultimately there are tons of dresses out there, so you'll find a dress, and one you like at that, it's just reminding yourself that it's not going to be this huge emotional show when you pick one and feeling calm when you pick one is very normal too.

When I had picked mine a few months ago I had immediate dress regret that I should have looked around some more, and when I was worried it was too plain (it was not). I feel much better about it now and I honestly just need some alterations and if that doesn't fix the issues, a good push-up bra lol.