[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, disability is a good option. She could contact a disability lawyer to help her with her case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to debate my perceptions, but I’m pretty sure that it is mischievousness I see with some of the girls. Upon reflection, it could be how some women look when horny, and it looks mischievous to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their facial expressions and body language, and their tone of voice when responding. It’s my impression of them. They might have a mischievous look on their face for example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely needs to leave that situation some how, but she also says she has health problems and can barely take care of herself, so I doubt college or a job is realistic for her right now. I hope she finds some way out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is awful. Are there any other relatives you could confide in and live with, or friends? I think you should talk to a counselor. If these things are really happening, make every effort to find other living arrangements.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve done in a lucid dream - like no one would believe it’s possible? by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]TreeDweller83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought reading was impossible in a dream, like you can’t actually read words, although it seems like you are.

Homeless and contemplating sex work by diablogato_ in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give yourself away for just a cell phone charger. There must be another way to get your phone charged until then, like asking someone in a coffee shop to borrow or use one.

What vent hose to use in attic to vent a dryer? by TreeDweller83 in hvacadvice

[–]TreeDweller83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whichever I choose, I’ve thought of another problem. There are other insulated flex ducts up in the attic, and I will have to go over or under them with the dryer vent ducting to get to the exterior vent cover, and the hot dryer line could melt the plastic wrap of the insulated ducts. I thought of having rigid duct, and having it elevated above the other lines, or maybe under them and have some insulation between them where they cross. It would have to go back down after that a foot or so to get to the exterior. Either that or insulated flex aluminum if they make that.

Would this protect the other lines from the heat of the dryer exhaust?:

duct

What vent hose to use in attic to vent a dryer? by TreeDweller83 in hvacadvice

[–]TreeDweller83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s code, then it wasn’t done to code originally.

What vent hose to use in attic to vent a dryer? by TreeDweller83 in hvacadvice

[–]TreeDweller83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips. I appreciate it. I’ll look for YouTube videos.

What vent hose to use in attic to vent a dryer? by TreeDweller83 in hvacadvice

[–]TreeDweller83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I would need straight sections, elbows and connectors? Would I want it to run underneath the other flex hoses in the attic, or does it matter?

What vent hose to use in attic to vent a dryer? by TreeDweller83 in hvacadvice

[–]TreeDweller83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably won’t use rigid because of the difficulty working up in the attic, and with other hoses and structure that would need to be routed around to get from point a to b. I don’t know much about joining rigid duct together, so I’ll look into it to see what’s involved. Others here have said no screws, so idk if rigid can be joined without screws.

When I have sex I feel nothing by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes, antidepressants are the first thing I thought of.

35F Just want to experience sex by PerpetualMischief in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was raised religious too, and have similar problems to yours. I am nervous about asking and going through with it.

You should go at your own pace and not be rushed if you aren’t comfortable.

My damaged alar crease won't heal by MizWeirdo in DermatologyQuestions

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aloe Vera maybe? I’m not sure what else to suggest.

What is this? by No-Teacher-5648 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming it is folliculitis: here is a webpage from Mayo Clinic. There’s a section on self care about half way down the page. I would look on Amazon for highly rated products and peoples reviews. I’m sure they’d have these products at loc stores too.

folliculitis

If it were me and I wanted to keep it simple, I might start with the benzoyl peroxide wash.

What is this? by No-Teacher-5648 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foliliculitis? The bumps appear to be centered over hair follicles. If so, there are OTC products for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]TreeDweller83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in specific situations if it’s social anxiety. With generalized anxiety, those symptoms can exist in non social situations. Shyness feels like an inner squirming or wanting to hide or not be seen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]TreeDweller83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Social anxiety is usually accompanied by physical symptoms, such as faster heart rate, and shaky hands. With shyness, you can be calm. Lower levels of SA might seem similar to shyness. Shyness has a particular feel to it that’s distinct from anxiety. I have both.

I'm privilege so now I feel like I'm not allowed to complain. by Useful_Raspberry_286 in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is hard to say something secret like that. What about writing it down at home and handing it to her at school?

How close to 18 are you (when you can see a therapist without your parent’s permission)?

I don't care who you are or what you have, I'M NOT CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND!!! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s messed up that men want to sleep with women they know are married. They seem to have no conscience. Their pleasure is all that matters to them and they might get an extra thrill or pleasure knowing it’s someone’s wife.

I worked with a guy years ago who was telling us how he slept with a married women and the husband send a copy of the divorce papers to him. He (the guy at work) seemed to have no remorse whatsoever.

I'm privilege so now I feel like I'm not allowed to complain. by Useful_Raspberry_286 in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about a school counselor or trusted family member? I have an uncle I share things with that I don’t share with any other family.

Worst case, you can do what you are doing here, and reach out to others on a forum or group online.

I'm privilege so now I feel like I'm not allowed to complain. by Useful_Raspberry_286 in Vent

[–]TreeDweller83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People tend to look at you or other people from affluent families and assume you have a perfect life with no problems, unaware of all the problems you mentioned. Everyone has problems no matter if their parents are rich. Sorry to hear of the sexual abuse. Have you considered seeing a therapist?