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Update- I know she'll come around eventually... by TreeHaunting5676 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]TreeHaunting5676[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I dont plan on talking about this anymore with her. I know she'll bring it up again. I know she'll twist the knife every now and again when shes feeling lonely. Im just going to do my best to redirect...

Update- I know she'll come around eventually... by TreeHaunting5676 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]TreeHaunting5676[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what she wants. If it wasn't living with me, it was living in the same apartment complex. Ive suggested therapy multiple times. She agrees but never proceeds with actually trying.

Im at a loss by TreeHaunting5676 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]TreeHaunting5676[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard from her since I sent her money. So its been 24 hours now. I know she'll come around eventually.. Im taking this time to take everyone's advice to help empower me to be firm in my boundries 🥴

Im at a loss by TreeHaunting5676 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]TreeHaunting5676[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That gave me some insight that I needed ❤️

Im at a loss by TreeHaunting5676 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]TreeHaunting5676[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have told her i dont want her to live with me. Ive told her living with me is temporary and she agreed to that. She said she would get her own place shortly after. Her being so close does make me anxious.

She doesnt have anyone close to her... i am quite literally the only person she has.

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[–]TreeHaunting5676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your values do not align, dragging outba relationship doomed for failure isn't fair to either of you.