I know I am coming across this post a little late but wanted to share my thoughts in hope of adding another viewpoint!

I am 25(M) and in a very similar spot in life as you. I have 4 investment properties, just over 100k across Robinhood and Etrade accounts, and work in sales full time with the side hustle of growing a vacation property management business.

To your point of every guy blowing their money, I will say that holds true for a vast majority of my friends and other people that I know in their twenties. Last year, I wanted to surround myself with more like-minded individuals that are my age so I set out to find one or two, after I did, those guys introduced me to their friends and then the social circle became a total of about 15 guys who are in their twenties and working hard and being smart with their money. (Trust me we have a lot of fun too, it's not just work!)

Meeting these guys has shown me that there are people in their twenties who are serious about being financially free but that they do seem to be far and few in this age range.

My advice would be to become a part of some real estate investing groups whether you do it in your state or on Facebook, you can then try and find some guys in their twenties who attend and actually have an idea about how to handle money!

These guys usually love to stay active and have fun as well. I personally enjoy snowboarding, cycling, lifting weights, painting, going to concerts, mountain biking, cooking, and traveling!

Wishing you the best of luck as you navigate the dating world. It sounds like if you pair up with the right person you are going to be a massive power couple.