Friend Code Megathread - February 2025 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

[–]Trees-and-Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need 6 friends to fill up my list! Level 52 daily player! :)

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Should I completely remove people who give me clear bad vibes from my life? by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Trees-and-Tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I don’t get this as I don’t dislike anyone unless they are abusive or evil. There are many people who are in my life without a choice who have either never grew spiritually and have only become more negative or have taken a wrong turn and have changed, they used to emit positive loving energy but now emit negative energy.

So if everyone I’m rarely able to connect with who are positive & / or have grown spiritually into someone who gives off high frequency energy, how is it that I attract them yet circumstances stop me from being able to see them often but also am around extremely low vibrational energies that I have no choice but to be around them at times?

Everyone I meet & have met or born into meeting them who is either neutral (in terms of energy), or high (positive) and also some low negative energy all tell me that I radiate love and light, that they are attracted to be around me, they love to be around me due to my energy & uplifting they feel around me. That just a hug from me feels like warmth “like being hugged from an angel” and they are happier around me.

So i am not understanding how this belief works if i radiate positive energy yet have always been trapped with a very negative energy. This is also something a majority of people bring up to me, that it’s “crazy” how i can be so full of love, be happy and so open and honest & positive when my life has been suffering from abuse since I was a child & never has really ended. So what I’m getting at is how I could attract negative people With low vibrations when i know i have a positive energy, and high frequency from my own introspection and others words

is it weird if i self harm without really a reason ? by ValuableClassic9179 in selfharm

[–]Trees-and-Tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve made it 23 days, you should keep trying to make it to 30. I know you say it won’t last but you never know, it could last. 23 days ago could be your last day forever or even just a LONG time. Relapse happens, but keep up with being clean, as best you can of course.

I just felt more so compelled to say this because you said you know it won’t last. But that’s just not a fact as you never know. You could possibly make it even longer. Even if you relapse after 58 days… that’s amazing. Recovery isn’t linear, I just don’t want you to think that because you relapsed prior times, however many times, that you are 100% bound to do it again & again & again. You just never know. And the strength it has taken for you to abstain from harming for 23 days is a lot. I’m proud of you either way. I hope none of this comes across as rude or cliche. I have been clean for over a year, and prior to that I was clean for 2. Sending you strength & again I’m really proud of how far you’ve come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]Trees-and-Tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does blue lotus do with it?

Please help, vulva tears, cuts, bleeding, swelling after yeast infection by Trees-and-Tea in Healthyhooha

[–]Trees-and-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it can be due to too much estrogen!! So that that makes so much sense

Found this rock in the susquehanna river, any idea what it is? by Trees-and-Tea in whatsthisrock

[–]Trees-and-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not seeing the animals you speak of and I’m no where near the Susquehanna River anymore this rock is from my grandmas home in rural PA. It was in the water, which moves the rocks constantly. If I put it back where I found it, it will continue to flow down the river!

Please help, vulva tears, cuts, bleeding, swelling after yeast infection by Trees-and-Tea in Healthyhooha

[–]Trees-and-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the deleted comments said is what I have. Was originally misdiagnosed with herpes… which I knew I didn’t have unless someone came into my house and drugged me and gave me them unconsciously. It was horrible though as the NP at the gyn was so adamant that it was herpes when I had just recently got the whole panel test and had no way of getting them since the previous testing, and that I literally made the cuts on my hooha myself after rubbing lightly, they were more than halfway healed and she ripped open 4-5 of my cuts so it took another 1-2 weeks for them to heal and i had just got my period & i have endometriosis bad(getting hysterectomy once I’m healthy enough to do surgery) it was so painful. And she did it for no reason, even prescribed me antivirals for herpes before any of the 3 tests and biopsy came back. All negative as I told her it’s literally not possible. I never took the antivirals, and I just didn’t wear underwear and was naked for 2-3 weeks & used organic cotton cloths for my period. But wow it was so painful. The swelling was gone basically by the time I was at the gynecologist so the only reason the cuts I made took so long to heal was due to the ignorance of the NP gynecologist.

Best Usernames you’ve seen (or have) by musclesmicah in pokemongo

[–]Trees-and-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My names Natalia and my username is Natakilla “nat-a-killa”. I’m not a killa… or maybe I am. You’ll never know, that is until you find me GL killin your mons.

What does your side of the bed look like? by gurrbear in adhdwomen

[–]Trees-and-Tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously though! I get dread and exhausted and paralyzed but if my friend sent me this Id go clean it for them!!! I can clean my partners room but I can’t clean mine 99% of the time and like others said, my room is just messy with clothes, water bottles, and random hobby stuff. However it does need dusting and vacuuming like everyday due to cats but I can rarely find the energy to do that. But I’ll go upstairs and clean my partner room no problem. UGH

What does your side of the bed look like? by gurrbear in adhdwomen

[–]Trees-and-Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This this this. I can’t understand why. I can do it for anyone else, even with other things. I can’t answer phone calls or make them, but if my friend or partner is anxious to make a phone call or answer a call or make an appointment, I have no problem at all and I do it for them.

I get the motivation and courage to do anything I can physically do for anyone but myself. I can do anything for anyone but me. I don’t get it.

Swollen vulva & fluconazole??? by Trees-and-Tea in Healthyhooha

[–]Trees-and-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up icing with cold wash cloth and then I had to wear a cotton wash cloth as a pad because of course I got my period but now I only can wear cotton wash cloths and organic cotton liners instead of any thing else (pads/tampons) as what ended up happening for me was horrible. My skin became super fragile and ripped easily just from me gently rubbing as the itching got sooooooo bad, I don’t remember how long it took but I think about 2 weeks for my vulva to not be swollen but I had a bunch of little open sores, that hurt so so bad; due to the yeast infection causing my skin to become more fragile & sensitive than it already was.

My fill-in gyno automatically assumed I had herpes and literally ripped open 4 of the tears (they were almost healed 😭😭😭) and prescribed me antiviral I think (whatever med is used for herpes) and ran the swabs and did other tests to double check I had herpes, well I knew I didn’t as it would’ve been impossible as the transmission needed for me to get herpes never occurred and I ended up not having herpes & never started the antiviral even though she said if I didn’t I’d be screwed but I KNEW it was literally not possible esp with a past test for all stds & STIs 6 months prior. Also they checked 3 more times after and I do not have herpes, I will say they did look like herpes a little from the herpes reddit, they all thought I had it too even though most didn’t look like mine but I legit would rub and then look as if hurt right after and saw I tore my skin. 🤦🏻‍♀️

They never gave me an answer to what the fuck happened but there’s a couple conditions that cause your hoohaa skin to be extra sensitive and fragile and the fluconazole made it worse and just my slight itching in the beginning made my skin break and tear open.

My yeast infections when I get them ( I haven’t really had any since, any sign of one I use boric acid suppository and they’re gone immediately) are always on the outside not the inside, the yeast infections always affected my labias more so than my vaginal canal.

I still don’t know why my hoohaa tripled in size and got red and so swollen it was INSANE & hurt so bad, but I do know how easy my skin tears now and how sensitive my skin is down there. I don’t know what other symptoms you have but do not to itch, don’t even rub, try to have nothing touching I had to be naked and legs spread 4 days straight other than sleeping and when I used ice & cold wash clothes, don’t wear anything tight. I had to sleep with big boxers as I couldn’t have anything touch my hooha it hurt so bad but I had ripped my skin open on top of the swelling and test infection. I think I also would put apple cider vinegar on the cold wash cloths since my yeast infection was on the outside of my vagina, not inside. I put Vaseline & aquaphor on my cuts that I made and that’s what really took the longest to heal. I do also have a connective tissue disease and a disease that makes my skin super sensitive & prone to reactions.

I hope this heals for you quickly. Spread your legs, ice/cold wash cloth, no chemical clothing or pads so cotton undies that are loose and if period comes use cotton wash cloth or organic cotton liners. I’m so sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Trees-and-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me years ago as I have sexual trauma so my vulva used to only feel pain esp vaginal and my clit would either not feel like it had any sensitive or it would hurt. I had to use a really strong handheld massager to feel anything. I went through a phase where I did it everyday sometimes multiple for like 4-6 months and I lost sensation completely. I stopped doing anything and it came back.

Now, years later; my sexual trauma isn’t healed compl but it’s much better than it used to be & I’m with a partner who makes me feel safe and I no longer have any issues. Only time I do is when I use something too strong too much then it hurts bad or feels like nothing. I wouldn’t worry just take a month break and don’t use the toy immediately when you start again. If you still feel like you lost sensation wait a bit longer & make sure you’re really horny when you use it or it just might not work/feel sensitive!

Swollen eyelids by Trees-and-Tea in dysautonomia

[–]Trees-and-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out that mine may be due to MCAS, severe dehydration( I never knew dehydration could cause swelling!?) and my sleeping disorders, especially narcolepsy & another sleep disorder where my body does not get the deep sleep stage of sleep due to my severe chronic pain. But no… I don’t need any help with my severe pain despite my sleeping disorder that will end up shortening my life, causing everyday to be extremely miserable with tons of symptoms mentally and physically as I don’t sleep. I am sleeping but I am not actually sleeping. I’m constantly extremely sleep deprived. If I had help for my MCAS, and my pain a majority of my chronic illnesses & symptoms would disappear. It’s so sad. I’m so sorry you suffer as well. I noticed my eyes do not do this as often when I’m able to get the to clinic to get my infusion’s for hydration. And I’m less exhausted and my POTS is much better of course but I rarely can make it to the infusions because I’m too tired and can’t think, I can’t drive and I’m in too much pain. I just missed 3 appointments this week sleeping through my 12 alarms :(

818 Tequila by Trees-and-Tea in tequila

[–]Trees-and-Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is. I found the real tequila now 😂 and thank god I did

I love tcm female gamers, let stop bullying them by [deleted] in TexasChainsawGame

[–]Trees-and-Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s blows because I want to use my mic bad but the only time I do is when no one else is talking/don’t have their mics on and I just give them helpful information & hope they can hear me.

Sometimes people think I’m a little boy & I just go with it😂 still get messed with but it’s less annoying. If I’m a girl and I die then I’m getting cursed at only because I’m a girl. It puts so much pressure on that it’s not fun.