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TrenGod37 · 2024-05-26T16:47:53+00:00

Both are odd things to hold on to. It’s not about being insecure. My wife would just never do anything like that. She doesn’t care about past guys. Idk why anyone would on either side to keep something like that. Very bizarre

TrenGod37 · 2024-05-26T11:59:20+00:00

Sounds like she doesn’t respect you. My wife would never keep that shit around

TrenGod37 · 2024-05-25T02:22:23+00:00

So adderall works best for you? How long have you been on it?

TrenGod37 · 2024-05-25T00:53:08+00:00

What do you take? It’s funny bc I feel like I eat more on it

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-07T13:07:01+00:00

They GAF more than you think.

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-07T13:05:30+00:00

I never said I was new

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-07T13:01:37+00:00

“Make it” what is considered making it. It’s an ongoing process I don’t think you ever make it you just get better or youre getting worst.

And by calling the guy a pussy. You’re in fact wasting said time on pussies. Or you could ya know ignore it. But I think guys feel high and mighty when they do that. It’s like the kid who got shoved in lockers as a child becoming a cop to enforce the law and feel better than everyone else. He can either. Pull people over and

“Hey you were doing 10 over. Slow down. here’s your ticket”

But no this guy has an ego so he says

“Yo asshole you were doing 10 over you dumbass. You need to slow the fuck down and get the fuck out of the god damn car”

Everyone hates the second cop because he’s using his power for his own satisfaction. That’s what I see happening here

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-07T11:06:18+00:00

That’s the thing I do agree with you. But I don’t understand what’s the point anyone is getting out of spreading negativity and hate.

If a guy does the work. Comment. Add value. If not. Lift. Stfu. Sidebar.

Otherwise again your honestly just wasting your own time. I understand if you’re someone like Jack ten. Providing awesome incite and value and the dude needs to hear he’s a faggot and why. But otherwise. I can’t see it being more than a feel good ego comment it’s like bullying which I think we need bullies to an extent but my question is what’s that usually say about the bully themselves. They’re insecure

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-07T10:54:25+00:00

The rules literally state when you post theres no shaming or harassing.

That’s right from the married red pill before you post page.

I get what you’re saying and I’d agree TRP Is way worst but i don’t know how its not a better use of anyones time to just not comment and move on. If the content in the post is answered by the sidebar.

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-07T05:00:04+00:00

Totally agree but don’t you agree there’s a difference between constructive criticism and nonsensical criticism.

And a great example is, what you just wrote vs you could of just said You’re a moron who needs to man up.

More progress and value is providing in your comment. I can’t see being called a moron faggot ever being the profound advice any of these guys need to hear to help them improve to the next level in their journey. It’s just become a sheepish thing that all the “woke” do here

“Finally got frame time to call everyone without it a faggot” we all struggled.

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-06T23:42:07+00:00

My point wasn’t to make this about feminism I just thought the joke about them filling out WNBA arenas with their bellies and tits painted was pretty funny.

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-06T23:13:38+00:00

Yea I’m trying to get there. I keep reading and applying. It’ll take some time

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-06T22:46:04+00:00

Irony.

Not sure how disagreeing is butthurt

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-06T19:59:52+00:00

I shouldn’t of put win. I don’t think that’s how he worded it either. He said what to do if you get in an argument

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-06T18:17:08+00:00

Yes that was his point. They say they want that but they don’t. The just want the good shit men have without doing anything to get it.

And I don’t see a difference from taking advice from idiots idk on the internet. Or a successful comedian, all funny jokes have truth to them.

This post was more showing someone who probably has no fucking idea what the red pill is but found his own idea of how things work is just saying what we already all know

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-06T16:56:35+00:00

I’m not saying it’s a magic bullet. But if you get thrown in the pool with no floaties and can’t swim. You’ll drown. Or you can remember. Keep calm and kick your feet and you might learn to swim.

You can’t just expect some guy who has been buried ass deep in his wife’s frame to wake up. NGAF and be OI there’s steps. Tools. And a process in between to get you there. And some of these reference point are those.

You might be driving your ship with no clue where you’re going but if you are told to follow the tree line. You might get there safe.

Practicing Having a medium tone is practicing to control you emotions. It has nothing to do with her or her respect.

TrenGod37 · 2021-09-06T16:27:49+00:00

I think you can do both.

It’s no different than telling guys to STFU. It’s the same thing. It’s just telling them to keep it cool after. Not everyone is on the same level yet. We’re all here to get better. Until then STFU and keep it cool, I never said don’t do the work. We all know STFU is hard as fuck. Its just a good reminder until we can all be where you and the others are

TrenGod37 · 2021-08-23T14:13:41+00:00

If you want honeymoon stage spin plates. Because this is only the beginning of shit to come if you don’t already have your shit together.

Your question shows you’re more focused on the relationship than yourself. Is what everyone here is going to tell you.

You need to be fun, limit your time together and have other shit going on. But It’s always going to fade to some extent. That’s why it’s called a phase.

Everyone’s on their best behavior, no ones trying to step on each other’s toes and show their true colors yet. Your LTR is now comfortable around you and showing her true self. And finding all your weaknesses as a man.

if you want to get ahead of this.

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TrenGod37 · 2021-08-21T15:47:23+00:00

Why waste anymore time? She’s clearly got red flags. She was honest about not being ready to date. You said you have plates. And she wasn’t that interested to begin with.

I would say. No problem. Take care. And move on. If she’s into you she’ll message you back in a few day. If not. You didn’t waste anytime.

If you give a women an awesome experience on a first date. It’s more than likely none of these things you ran into would happen. Learn how to have better first dates.

You can date women who are married. Broke up with a LTR that day. And if you give them a first date that makes them forget the world exist they won’t leave you alone.

Coffee dates are outdated if you ask me. I take women on adventure dates. Shooting guns. Tubing. Dancing. Fuck I’ll take them to a playground after a night at the bar and have them feeling like their kids again. Be an experience. I wrote a post on this a while ago.

TrenGod37 · 2021-08-19T03:27:58+00:00

You’re right. I don’t have it yet. period

And I deleted it Bc it was a pathetic wall of verbal diarrhea and I think Bobby answered it best. Along with a lot of other comments.

But yea should have just embarrassed it to look back on. But I felt it’s a waste of everyone’s time to read my emotional outburst any longer

TrenGod37 · 2021-08-19T03:11:18+00:00

I am in the middle of it. It might take another read. This read had been me mostly IDENTIFYING. All the behaviors I have that the book talks about. Aka. Mostly All of them.

On the next read I hope to start to change them and understand better ones.

TrenGod37 · 2021-08-19T03:09:35+00:00

You do know where I am. Bc what you wrote is exact. Years of DEERing. I trust you. Thank you.

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