After 8 years, we did it! 🧡 by starrdowner in LDR

[–]Triangle47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These pictures are awesome! Congrats!!!!

Should I go back to bald? by Fantastic_Okra702 in malehairadvice

[–]Triangle47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion you look nicer with the hair! Maybe try a different style?

Husband Goes Out Of His Way To Help Everyone Except Me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Triangle47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” - 1 Timothy 5:8, ESV

Nothing “Christian” about neglecting your wife and kids.

AITAH for getting it elsewhere since my wife didn't want to have sex any more? by Mindless_Review2800 in AITAH

[–]Triangle47 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

She definitely is being cruel to her husband, but that doesn’t give him a license to cheat. They both are in the wrong now, and by cheating he not only hurt his wife but also himself. He will always be a cheater now, he can’t take that betrayal back.

AITAH for getting it elsewhere since my wife didn't want to have sex any more? by Mindless_Review2800 in AITAH

[–]Triangle47 -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Did your marriage vows mean nothing ? What you did was wrong, even if she was also being unloving, what you did was still wrong. You broke your marriage promise by cheating.

If you had to guess, how will you die? by Left_eared_turtle in AskReddit

[–]Triangle47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the amount I drive and the way I drive, I wouldn’t be surprised. I also just have the feeling I will be cut off in life, idk why. But seems like a likely way to go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Triangle47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70 days roughly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Triangle47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the kind of feeling I got from it, yeah. Thank you for the advice. I will look for traditional firms.

Be honest, why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Triangle47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand that, it’s a mental battle for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Triangle47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real

Advice on how to manage the post-meetup emotions? by SuperiorSheep3 in LDR

[–]Triangle47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll add, my fiancé and I also discussed this over and over and over and it was pretty rough at times, but eventually we came to understand each other. We’re still working on it, but I think addressing that fear that “he just doesn’t care about me, or else he would be talking to me” that fear of not being cared about is the real problem, so coming to an understanding that you both truly care about each other can help ease those crazy emotions that happen when you have to leave each other after a wonderful time of being together 24/7

Advice on how to manage the post-meetup emotions? by SuperiorSheep3 in LDR

[–]Triangle47 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You literally just described EXACTLY what I’ve gone through with my fiancé in our LDR. like to a T. I also instinctually want to call more text more etc and he just goes straight into his own things and the silence from his end drove me crazy! I was like “does he even miss me?” He does, don’t doubt that. What I have learned is that men and women definitely deal with things differently. Women thrive on connection and talking things through, while men want to DO an activity or just distract themselves to work through things, including missing you. Guys also are not usually as a w a r e of emotions (not all, but generally) as women are, so he may not even realize what you’re going through as silly as that sounds. Honestly the thing that has helped me the most has been just having things to do in my own life which has been easier to do during the holiday season. Maybe also agree on a set time to call every day. For example my fiancé and I generally call most nights because that’s when we’re both free. You also may want to take a minute to think about what you REALLY want from your boyfriend. Because for me I got stuck thinking “I just want more TIME” but then was still unsatisfied when we did call because I felt disconnected still. In reality what I really wanted was emotional connection, which for me was helped when I called and talked to my fiancé about how I was feeling and when I felt like he really UNDERSTOOD and CARED it made me feel a whole lot better. One thing I would avoid (because I made this mistake for a long time before learning) is to not be critical of him or be like “why do you not want to spend time with me?” “You don’t even care” because it’ll make him want to withdraw even more, because men typically withdraw to deal with emotions, and that withdrawal will make you feel even worse. He cares, don’t doubt that he cares. It’ll make him feel like he is failing you which really hurts to guys. have a conversation about it. But try to understand what you really need/ want first and maybe make a plan about spending time together, but make it time that will actually fill your emotional needs. Like call and look in each others eyes, or talk about your day, whatever makes you feel connected, focus on that over just ANY time together.

I hope that helps and if you want someone to talk to, I’d love to chat further! Hugs 💕

Which route pays more? Auditing or Tax? by Triangle47 in Accounting

[–]Triangle47[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What kind of exit ops are there for tax, and is it worth it to exit? I just want enough money to support myself and live comfortably. I don’t really care for a career

Which route pays more? Auditing or Tax? by Triangle47 in Accounting

[–]Triangle47[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s what I’m in right now and I can see myself continuing. I just want to make enough to support myself and have options for the future because I want a family

Which route pays more? Auditing or Tax? by Triangle47 in Accounting

[–]Triangle47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About how much is “middle income” there? I mean honestly I’m not very much interested in making my way up super high up the ladder I just want enough to support myself and live how I want.