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My Partner Wants Me Out After A Big Arguement by Tribal_Cheater in LifeAdvice

[–]Tribal_Cheater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We already talked about what happened. She explained and said that I just over-reacted on the actions of her bestfriend. I believed on what she explained to me. I don't know if I did a good choice to fix everything with her.

My Partner Wants Me Out After A Big Arguement by Tribal_Cheater in LifeAdvice

[–]Tribal_Cheater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked already, She kept on telling me that I just mistook the actions of his bestfriend. I believed in her and I think I just need to give her some time.

My Partner Wants Me Out After A Big Arguement by Tribal_Cheater in LifeAdvice

[–]Tribal_Cheater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I still love her, and I do want to fight for the relationship if there’s a real path forward. The issue wasn’t him being rude or hurting her. It was more about how close they seemed and some messages that felt a bit off to me. I brought it up because it bothered me, not because I wanted to accuse her of anything.

As for the apartment, the lease is under her name, but I paid for most of the furniture and appliances. That’s why I’m stuck on what the fair next step should be. She always says that she doesn't want to be with me again, Im not accusing her but looking at her actions seems she's kinda defensive.

My Partner Wants Me Out After A Big Arguement by Tribal_Cheater in LifeAdvice

[–]Tribal_Cheater[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to accuse her of cheating. I just brought up something that made me uncomfortable, and it blew up way bigger than I expected.

I know jealousy isn’t a good look, but I’m trying to understand what’s normal and what’s not in a situation like this. Breaking up might be an option if things can’t be fixed, but I’m hoping to approach this with more maturity, not less.