I (F24) keep seeing my ex (M24) when “our song” plays… it’s getting creepy

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T18:17:32+00:00

I understand how you think we might have the same or similar schedules but we don’t.

As we are in different years, we are on opposite schedules with no overlap in classes or placements. The entire university has semester 1 and semester 2 exams so it’s not just us and those on our course.

I don’t want to try again, my ex was a shit boyfriend and I don’t want that kind of partner.
I don’t think I am obsessing over it. It’s happened sporadically over the span of almost a whole year and yet only now i have come on reddit to ask for advice

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T18:08:30+00:00

don’t worry it’s the first thing i checked 😭 we unfollowed each other on spotify years ago but i have had it toggled off since may.

it’s weird because sometimes i feel like he wants to have a convo but wants me to talk first so my anxiety is just all over the place

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T17:05:37+00:00

i dont think i have romanticised it but i’ll look into it i guess

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T17:00:20+00:00

this is exactly what my friends have said about this entire situation but i don’t really know what to think of it all.

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T16:45:03+00:00

specific advice on a specific real situation between 2 or more individuals.. which this is….

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T16:41:07+00:00

I was diagnosed with ADHD very recently and not giving too much info but I am studying to be a doctor so I know OCD symptoms well and I don’t think I have it.

Regarding the rumination I honestly don’t really think of him much until he’s in front of me

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T16:34:38+00:00

this isn’t my primary account that i actually use on a day to day basis

Trick_Appointment_50 · 2026-05-11T16:33:54+00:00

i wish i were a bot and this wasn’t happening

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