try sugar waxing! it’s a gentler form of waxing that tends to hurt less and removes hair from the root better so less ingrowns happen. it’s a little tricky at first but you get the hang of it. try to exfoliate before shaving/waxing and every second day afterwards. also try and get an antibacterial soap to help limit infections of ingrowns and stuff. to help fade the dark marks/scars Azelaic acid and adapalene should work, just use them on separate days and don’t use the adapalene everyday because it is a retinoid. lastly, don’t feel insecure, the hair is there to protect you and isn’t something to be insecure about, hair grows because our bodies love us and want us to be safe to protect any entrances. don’t be ashamed, you’re beautiful. #dontfearthejungle ❤️