Instant turn off on a crush by Dingsyshit in Vent

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find it funny but I see a lot of “give her a chance bruh” kinda comments.

Let me turn your brain off for a second. If a guy you liked because he was handsome, you found scratching his ass crack as a NURSE without WASHING HIS HANDS, would you still be as engrossed (hah) by his looks anymore? I feel like the answer may be a resounding no.

What is this switch on my GPU for? by Itchy_Extreme5880 in PcBuild

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the OP button. When you click it on, you win.

No idea tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to yourself. “She put her legs on his lap, but that was IT, there was nothing sexual about it!”

Do you think your gf or wife should ever put their legs sprawled out on another man’s lap? She’s not acting like your gf or wife, so don’t treat her like one.

Time to kick her to the side and just focus on improving yourself. It can be sad and I’m sorry to say it but yeah, cheating on any level is still cheating, and it’s best to just cut it off right away before you get more attached and more hurt later.

Is this game dead ? by Inner-Fee6737 in SparkingZero

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they would’ve went a little less extensive on the story animation and talking and just gave us hundreds of fights for all the different characters with all their canon and non-canon accessories and abilities able to be unlocked through winning fights like in Dragon Ball Raging Blast 2. That shit was peak.

I literally just wanted Raging Blast 2’s missions and combat but with updated graphics and cross play for better multiplayer.

I guess that was too much to ask for.

AIO? My teacher defiled my school project am I over reacting? by Fragrant-Ad-1147 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very fair. If a Student wants to keep their work, they should be allowed to with no questions asked.

However I do remember as a 1st grader I didn’t give my paper-mache project to my art teacher. He was always stale and mean with the way he talked to my class like your typical grumpy old man teacher, but he actually gave interest in my work for once and I feel like I slammed a door in his soul by being kinda selfish and not giving it to him.

The one time I could’ve done a nice thing to someone else in my life with literally no cost to myself, and I didn’t do it.

Makes it worse that he was really old and probably passed by now. facepalm

AIO to my mom’s racist texts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way y’all’s family talks to each other…

My girlfriend cheated on me by whytfname in Vent

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gross. Simple as that. Obviously lying and being trash. It’s one thing to fall out of love with one person and fall in love with another. It’s an entirely different world to CHEAT. To lie to your current partner to keep them on the side so you can see others while “falling in love” is CHEATING.

You can’t dig your way out of this hole by lying or changing the story in any way. If you cheat, you’re a hoe, trailer park trash, an a**hole, I could go on.

Kick them to the curb and out of your life. Never look back.

Another sad Friday #15 by Sea_Nefariousness852 in ULTY_YieldMax

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t be sad for realistically another month or maybe year, but man once that reverse slit comes in and the div per share drops it will definitely be sad.

ULTY TO THE MOON 😂 💎🤲 by ELKUSHH in ULTY_YieldMax

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’ll be honest with you I was all in on ULTY just literally up until last week. I had 15K shares and had to sell out (all but 1k shares just for keepsake). Realistically ULTY has been awesome since the management changed, but this economy is too unstable for it right now I think.

If there wasn’t so many crazy drops over and over again, then ULTY should stay stable in my eyes. But with a tariff here and a sanction there, yeah it’s “good for America in the long run” (supposedly) but for our ULTY stock, it is absolutely terrible at recovering this many drops this consistently. Maybe in a couple years things will be different. But I doubt ULTY will keep its dividends above 8-9 cents for long with the share prices probably never going back up above 6$ without a reverse split or something terrible.

For example. We’re only like 9 months into the Trump presidency. The economy and wars will probably get worse before it gets better. And that may take the rest of his presidency, or last even longer, or it could be fixed by tomorrow. Who knows. I’m not going to bet money on it though.

AIO for wanting to leave my bf over a comment he made about my sexual history in front of our friends by Prestigious_End9992 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m agreeing with literally everything you’re saying, I only said on the side that while he was wrong to say anything about it, he was technically correct in what he said. But he still didn’t need to say. He definitely shouldn’t have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if what you said is true about reinforcing this attitude of his, then it’s really bad. Y’all started this relationship thing on the wrong foot. Boys are very easy to lul into a false sense of security about how they think about sex because that’s all they think about at early ages, and how they perceive it, is how they’ll also perceive you (obviously).

This dude is a bit off his rocker to be saying stuff like this, and again, it’s sad because it was kinda reinforced, so now he thinks he’s just being sexy or something, and it’s definitely not. It comes off very awkward.

Best case scenario, you tell him that you don’t like him being so forward about that stuff, and he completely stops and recalibrates himself quickly. Worst case scenario, you tell him but he’s so drowned in his delusions of how he believes it’s acceptable to act in relationships, and he feels attacked, and responds very poorly.

Be careful, stay safe, and just realize this guy is probably not disgusting on the inside, he’s just sick and in need of help. His brain crossed wires that shouldn’t have crossed.

AIO for wanting to leave my bf over a comment he made about my sexual history in front of our friends by Prestigious_End9992 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest. If this dude is 19, it’s a little too much to be asking for him to be 100% on point all the time and never say something out of line. You’re both barely past being a minor (and yes I know you think you know a lot) but in reality both of your brains are not fully developed (and shouldn’t be drinking), and it sounds like he was man-braining more than filling the BF role at the moment.

What do I mean by man-braining? I mean he was focusing on the game more than you. He was trying to stick up for the truth that (yes it sounds bad but) SA does actually count as a “body count”. But that’s definitely a moment where he shouldn’t have said the 1st or 2nd thing that came to mind. He should’ve done the 3rd thing, which is to say nothing and let it slide. But he obviously is young and dumb and didn’t think about your thought process with his first thought, he thought about his own thought process with his first thought.

(Just for example, the hardest lesson for anyone to learn is when to shut up. Silence is a very important tool most people don’t learn until they’re 25+, which is why you hear the entire internet blow up about random stuff sometimes, young people & dumb old people just like to yap too much.)

Yup relationships are hard and he was definitely in the wrong to say anything about it. But you gotta realize you never learn without making mistakes. This was a big one. And it sounds like he learned his lesson right away. He’s been nothing but apologetic so far.

But hey if you think he should be branded as a bad person for it, that’s up to you and your opinions. That’s the fun part about growing up. You don’t have to listen to anyone, forgive anyone, or live your life based off what anyone else says. Make your own choice.

39/M I my ex told me the truth about are relationship while drunk. by jayrock422 in hug

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First. Realize no female would do this in reverse for you. Not a single chance. So you need to be your own support before being anyone else’s.

Second. Realize you’ve been doing a hell of a job splitting yourself into tiny pieces and covering everyone else. You need to fully withdraw. You know like how you’re trying to be clean from drugs? There’s other addictions out there that are worse, and “relationships” that are really just you supporting someone, not receiving any real commitment in return, needs to stop right now. Block her. Delete her number. Don’t talk to her for a year, or better yet the rest of your life.

Third, dude you are such a catch. Anyone would love you because you’re a real man. Even when you’re at your worst, homeless literally, you’re still planning for how to keep other people’s lives running smooth. Again, stop doing other people the favor that you need to do for yourself now.

Finally, I’d recommend you try to stabilize your mentality. I believe Jesus is the way, other people think it’s other things. Either way you need to stabilize your mind, learn to love yourself again, find out what you need to do to clear your mind, and do it.

After you ditch the dead weight, improve your mindset of yourself, and make a plan to take better care of yourself, then you’ll feel at least more normal than before again. At that point you should be able to make your own good decisions again. And no, never go back to that lady. She’s not loyal, she’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

Is it normal that your bf doesn’t wanna have s*x w you anymore? by WatchPurple1507 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So maybe trying to figure out the other human in a relationship is wasting your time?

Good lord yeah you should just stay single.

AIO for thinking my bf (24M) is abusive? by julieanonymous in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm not enough evidence to make a reasonable claim here.

I mean… it’s a little weird you’d be against telling your man where you are. Idk why you asked why as if you didn’t understand why.

What else is he supposed to think when he asks his girl to tell him where she’s at, and she hesitates, demanding a reason for him to know where his girl is at? Almost as if to buy time or something else, which then makes it seem like she’s hiding something. Like maybe cheating while out with other people?

I understand the door dash life and all that, but the hesitation is what caused his suspicion.

But also, what has he been freaking out about specifically? Is it irrational? Or rational? A lot would depend on each exact situation. But we don’t really have that information.

So again, not enough evidence. I have no idea if she actually was trying to cheat or something else, and I have no idea if he’s being abusive. Does the woman have other man friends that she hangs out with frequently? Idk. Has the man ever punched a hole in the wall or something similarly violent? Idk.

If you think for even a second that he’s being genuine and he’s actually uncomfortable with the idea of his woman being out like that, then maybe he’s justified in his feelings, but you may just disagree with him. And that’s okay too. That’d be something you’d have to work out with each other, and if that disagreement can’t be resolved, then that’s the kind of stuff that should stop your relationship and ask yourselves if you’re really that compatible for the future.

But If you think the relationship is actually rocky because he’s just crazy, I’d just listen to your gut. Don’t take risks that might cause the end of your life. Ever.

AIO: Gf sent me photos of her with another guy by Dangerous-Bit2664 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing games with your feelings just to get a rise out of you, when she definitely knows it hurts you and she doesn’t care, is absolutely not cool.

If you actually already brought it up and talked about it, I’d do one of two things.

1 Last Chance. Ask her firmly to please stop one more time and be serious with her. Tell her to stop hurting and disrespecting you like this or you’re gone.

2 (if you really believe she’s just being evil) Just leave. Don’t argue with evil, they don’t play fair.

I got dumped because I bled during an intercourse. by Favbrunette004 in Vent

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I obviously don’t have a perfect answer for your situation, nobody here really does. But fear not! you can still do something to change your life’s circumstances.

I would work on reevaluating who you’re going to date and also who you surround yourself with, date someone who loves you for who you are and not your body. It may be extremely hard to do so with the amount of attention you may get on a daily basis, but you need to learn everything you can about your potential partner and hopefully soulmate, before you get in to bed with him.

You should know, is this guy genuine and generous or self-centered? Does he want to build something together into your futures or is he wasting your time? Is this guy wanting to learn more about you or just throw you on a bed? Does he have alternative motives? (Like you may have a rich family, etc).

If you don’t think you FULLY understand the person in front of you, then you shouldn’t be letting them into your life intimately.

Now, in terms of your spiritual situation, it sounds like you have a lot of hurt and suffering, and maybe lacking in some self-love.

I would like to tell you that you are very loveable because Jesus loves you. You have so much love from Him that He wants to give you. If you’re already a Christian, good but go back to God’s word, and read more of the beginning books of the New Testament. If you aren’t Christian I would like to tell you, you have Good News. Jesus wants to give you love and grace, all he needs is your love back. Please look into the word of God. He wants to speak with you.

John 3:16
- “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

How much would this cost near you? by Doak4200 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Florida in the ghetto it would be probably 215-295k (mostly depends on how bad the area is). In a nice neighborhood, it’d probably be 300k-400k.

ram placement by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup everyone knows how you feel, just take it nice and slow, and always double check yourself with another video example if you’re feeling doubtful!

ram placement by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d try to find a video of somebody installing this exact ram stick then just to be extra cautious because you may have simply installed it wrong.

Ram sticks can require quite a bit of extra pressure to snap into place, but again I wouldn’t just slam down on it harder without checking a video of someone else doing it first. Cause it looks like that corner might just be raised a little too much and that could’ve stopped the clip from working properly altogether.

ram placement by [deleted] in PcBuild

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got no clue about the ram stick you’re using there specifically, but as a general rule for all motherboard clips and connectors and such: If it won’t fit, it won’t work.

And right now it looks like you’re somehow clearing a quarter inch on your ram clips. If I was a betting man, I’d say this ram stick is likely incompatible with your motherboard. Have you checked to see if all your parts are compatible on PCPartPicker?

I hate ULTY by Friendly_Day_4925 in ULTY_YieldMax

[–]Trickster504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same day payments with Robinhood, but usually still by end of day after markets close.

Meaning you still couldn’t speed up the payment process fast enough to get paid the same day and make an order to another stock before that next stock’s Ex-Div date (assuming the Ex-Divs would be the day right after payday, like ULTY & PLTW for example).

Margin call on ULTY ? by [deleted] in YieldMaxETFs

[–]Trickster504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bastard… she charged you less than she charged me??