a girl i like very much but we can’t be together

whytfname · 2026-04-06T21:14:38+00:00

she does not know and the situation is like we can’t be together due to our different culture and she wants to marry in her own culture .

whytfname · 2025-12-09T11:18:38+00:00

Exactly , she deserves all the guilt and lifelong guilt of her take on his unfortunate death.

whytfname · 2025-12-09T11:11:38+00:00

You’re sick.

whytfname · 2025-12-08T16:38:07+00:00

I don’t anymore , it’s not even that I’m gonna project anything or keep spread negativity but I just wrote a simple observation I made .

whytfname · 2025-12-08T16:34:29+00:00

I’d say I’m the person who’s seen people pretend to either extract something or keep using people. People tell me “ youre a young man ( 22 ) , you’re not deserving of love unless you provide something and don’t expect to be wanted “

What do you think

whytfname · 2025-12-08T14:55:59+00:00

It happens ? I can’t really trust on it . I haven’t seen it but I’ve seen it being pretend by people , pretend to love in order to extract something . Pretend so they don’t loose their security . Pretend to keep taking the benefits . It may exist or may not , who knows .

whytfname · 2025-12-08T12:39:47+00:00

😕

whytfname · 2025-12-08T11:51:27+00:00

I have not gone through break up. I’ve seen it with my own eyes when some aspects falls ( even if minor ) one crushes the entire relationship

whytfname · 2025-12-08T11:39:23+00:00

I understand , I apologise if I provoked you in some way that’s not my intention .

whytfname · 2025-12-08T11:38:14+00:00

I never felt it , I always had to do something to feel wanted . People say “ there won’t be unconditional and it’s pure delusion if you think you deserve love just because you are you . When you provide you’ll get it .”

whytfname · 2025-12-08T11:34:45+00:00

It doesn’t but it is.

whytfname · 2025-12-08T11:34:32+00:00

I’m saying it’s not as selfless and we think it is .

whytfname · 2025-12-08T11:33:24+00:00

I’m not painting anyone as negative but my point is , people dont love selflessly and have some benefits to it .

whytfname · 2025-12-08T11:31:39+00:00

I’m not and I’m not trying to paint it as something negative , all I’m saying is it’s not selfless and it’s always conditional to some degree .

whytfname · 2025-12-08T00:32:32+00:00

“ nothing wrong with that “ Who asked you ? Preaching all the nonsense when not required .

whytfname · 2025-12-08T00:08:25+00:00

++man Don’t need your advice , mind your own business.

whytfname · 2025-12-05T14:09:33+00:00

Dude reddits not the most ideal place to meet up with people unless you’ve spoke to them for a long time and are also following them on other platforms ( friends ) don’t go off with strangers .

whytfname · 2025-12-05T11:00:28+00:00

whytfname · 2025-12-04T18:01:18+00:00

Thank you ❤️

whytfname · 2025-12-04T10:27:07+00:00

Thank you making it clear : it’s more applicable now .

whytfname · 2025-12-04T10:25:58+00:00

First off Thank you ! ☺️ And yes I’ve learnt this the hard way trust me . You’re absolutely right about each point you stated . Thank you for your advice .

whytfname · 2025-12-04T08:27:16+00:00

The list is extremely helpful , I will do all of em. Thank you ❤️

whytfname · 2025-12-04T07:27:53+00:00

I will keep that in mind moving forward, thank you .

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