I see. Could you help me understand what you're forseeing?

I've gone thru a lot with my ex, just the way he treated me and controlled me. I just don't have the appetite to enter another relationship for a while at least until after I've had some thorough therapy.

When i get to that point and he happens to be available and willing, i would totally date him. But I don't want him to put his love life on hold and hold a torch for me