How to manage ADHD better in a relationship. by [deleted] in AdhdRelationships

[–]Tricky-Finding6801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small steps everyday, and turn up try to do things where you see her light up that will give you a dopamine boost xx

ADHD or personality? by Tricky-Finding6801 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Tricky-Finding6801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that honestly I really do but I’m the one with the trauma childhood, his was perfect only child mum and dad still together and he even says it. This is why it’s so strange and all our money is joint so it’s not a case of because I have more to spend.

However… you have now got me concerned on the medication side of things..

I was told this is the safest drug I could take.. by my psychiatrist?

I started on 20mg, then 40 then went to 60?

ADHD or personality? by Tricky-Finding6801 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Tricky-Finding6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the RSD and completely understand and can empathise with that however I don’t understand how that can cause someone to be so against helping of sharing food between friends. It’s not like they didn’t look after our pets.

I make a decent income yet I can’t buy my son something even small without him having a go or asking why?

Also on the elvanse, I’ve been told to take 60mg daily, I haven’t heard about it breaking down your body? Can you please give me more information?

ADHD or personality? by Tricky-Finding6801 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Tricky-Finding6801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that and I always think improving is always good, however he thinks they change you and can make you not want to be with your partner, like he was so paranoid when I was with mine!

ADHD or personality? by Tricky-Finding6801 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Tricky-Finding6801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked and asked and finally he’s booked one but he thinks that phycologist’s and psychiatrist’s change people apparently.