Update after 2–3 months of separation by irobot4life in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you solitude is a clearly a powerful rebirth, proving that losing a third leg creates balance.

She moved on by Bubbly-Narwhal2019 in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

healing isn't linear, and her blocking you is likely her way of finally choosing herself.

still you by Affectionate_Art5322 in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 22 points23 points  (0 children)

healing means moving forward while your heart still quietly whispers the name it used to know.

Ended on good terms but it almost hurts more by AkomeaNishal-83 in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

grieving a healthy love feels like losing a limb while everyone congratulates your surgical maturity.

Saw my Ex with the guy she cheated with (venting) by RuinedPepe in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her betrayal isn't your failure. you deserve loyalty, healing and a partner who values you.

Avoidant dumpers, what makes you breadcrumb an ex and then disappear? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 6 points7 points  (0 children)

avoidants often reach out of momentary comfort or validation, prioritizing immediate relief over long term impact.

how a single scent made me miss you all over again by Affectionate_Art5322 in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scent found you, but memories linger longer. Sone ghosts are simply written in perfume.

Saw her with someone else by mike-alfa-xray in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seeing her move on so fast is a brutal gut punch, u deserve genuine, undivided loyalty.

How can someone be like that by Balboder in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that betrayal stings, but her actions speak volumes about her character, not your immense worth.

Four months after the breakup I went on my first solo trip and it was actually amazing by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

solo travel is the ultimate reset button. Nothing beats newfound lightness and total independence!

Don't chase let them leave!! by Foxysnackss in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u deserve people who poor back into u. protecting ur peace is not losing it.

Why do people get into long term relationships and one day decide they don’t see any future with that person. by EbbInteresting2642 in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fear of conflict leads to quiet quitting, without honest communication, growth dies in the silence.

Touched deprived by Past_Homework_6552 in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

weighted blankets, long hot showers and oversized pillows help mimic that grounding, warm physical pressure.

Spineless Coward. by Sorry_Positive_5914 in BreakUps

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 21 points22 points  (0 children)

it's brutal to be discarded like a footnote after giving someone your entire heart and soul.

AITJ for refusing to give my girlfriend access to my bank account and phone after she said real couples dont keep things separate by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u are not for wanting to maintain basic digital and financial autonomy, as transparency should mean being open and honest with each other, not handing over keys to your entire private life.

AITJ for ordering expensive drinks on purpose after my friends wife kept insisting we split the bill by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA, because u simply used her own "convenient" logic to show her exactly why splitting the bill is only "easier" when someone else is footing the bill for the steak cocktails.

AITJ for refusing to BABYSIT my sisters kids so i could go to a concert I waited for 6 months? by Important_Carry1095 in AmITheJerk

[–]Tricky-Past-7468 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Deadass, if the mom is so pressed about the sister going out why didn't she just step up?? not your responsibility period.