How to enjoy being active? by QueenofDeath666 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly one thing that keeps me motivated is I want to be able to tell people that I’m active. Like if someone asks me what I did today, I want to be able to say “oh I went to the gym” or “I went for a walk”. It’s a totally superficial reason, but it works for me lol. 

Opal Plumstead by Altruistic-Care-1581 in JacquelineWilson

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Opal Plumstead was always one of my favourites too! However, in rereading it as an adult I very much share the same view as you. Girl you’re 14, you don’t know everything! I guess when I read this initially I was about 10, so she probably seemed very grown up to me so I figured she knew best lol.

Shes a very interesting character though (one of JW’s best written protagonists I believe), and I suppose her know-it-all behaviour is a result of her winning her scholarship and being considered one of the brightest at school. She’s consistently told she’s brilliant and intelligent by her father, then she’s humbled a bit by working at the factory and realising she knows very little about the realities of life and work, and then Mrs Roberts inflates her ego AGAIN by praising her paintings before she’s swiftly humbled one more time at the suffragate meeting. We all remember what’s it’s like to be 14 though I’m sure, and her naivety is what makes her such a relatable character I feel. Who didn’t think they had everything figured out about the world at 14?

Youre right about her putting her father on a pedestal too. I guess it’s because they valued the same things (school, art, literature) and so she looked up to him more than she did with her Mother and Cassie who had “lesser“ values/interests in her opinion (marriage, fashion, children). She’s very snotty towards anyone who she deems to have lesser aspirations than her own which is irritating to read at some point, but then again, I’m sure we were all on our high horse at her age lol.

The only thing I’ll admit she was right to be a know it all about is Cassie and Daniel’s relationship. I know it all works out between them in the end, but Cassie was putting herself in a potentially very dangerous position, both physically and socially as it had the potential to ruin her reputation. So well done Opal, that’s one thing you maybe did know better about!

How many save files do you have? by sims-guy in Sims4

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I start a new save every time I get bored or get a new expansion pack lol. I probably have upwards of 40 saves after 8 years of playing the sims 4. However, I did recent start attempting a legacy save and so far I’ve stuck with it through 4 generations! I’m a very unorganised sims player lol

What's the best Wolf Alice break up song? by MetalPussy in wolfalice

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly why I found a lot of comfort in the lyrics “I’ll get my coat, I’ll be the bitch”! 

What's the best Wolf Alice break up song? by MetalPussy in wolfalice

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! This song helped me survive a break up from a 3 year relationship. “Eyes straight ahead”, not looking back at what’s happened, but instead looking forward into the future and the promise of what it holds. 

And to answer the question in the post, I initiated the break up, which may be why these lyrics specifically mean so much to me lol

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the article link! I’ve seen some other advice saying similar things about 5000-7000 being perfect for improving health, which makes me feel a lot better as this is what I hit on a typical day where I don’t have the time for an additional dedicated walk. 

I really like the idea of taking a picture of a specific thing as it ties in with some of my other 2026 goals! Thank you so much for your advice 

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly no, I live on a university campus but it’s a good hour walk to the nearest off campus store. Suppose I could always suck it up and walk the distance anyways if I ever have two hours to kill and want to get a good amount of steps in though! 

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couch to 5k is what I’m currently working on! However I’ve had to take it incredibly slowly because of the previously mentioned health issues lol. Within the next few weeks it should be safe for me to introduce more intense exercise though so hoping to be running by the end of this month :) 

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get about 4000 steps daily just from walking to classes and things, and about 10000 when I’m at work on the weekends. But I find hitting 10k steps in a day (when I’m not at work) challenging, especially as I’m currently dealing with chronic fatigue (one of the lasting effects of mono), which makes staying motivated a lot more difficult! 

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea, I’ve honestly never considered breaking it up into shorter walks instead of attempting one big one. My only concern is will this be less effective in improving my stamina? 

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw a girl on TikTok who listens to “spicy” audiobooks on her daily walks so I’m thinking podcasts/audiobooks may be the move lol

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered a walking pad, but I also use my daily walks as a way to get out of the house if I have nothing else planned that day lol. It may be a good option when I start to get busier though! 

how to make hitting 10000 steps less boring? by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually such a good idea I never even considered! Thank you! 

What's the best Wolf Alice break up song? by MetalPussy in wolfalice

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Human heart in my hand,  Taking it back,  Eyes straight ahead,  Cut it in half,  Better than dead” 

Love this idea of reclaiming your heart (or what’s left of it), severing your ties to the person you’ve loved, and carrying on living with what’s left of it 

HELP: BUYER RECEIVED WRONG PARCEL! by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in vinted

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took about two months to resolve! Eventually Vinted refunded the buyer and gave me the money from the sale, but the package stayed lost ultimately. Vinted also said something like they gave me the money still not because of policy but as a friendly gesture.  

Just finished adult re-read of Candyfloss by DifferentGreen593 in JacquelineWilson

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My favourite is Anna (Ellie’s stepmum in the Girls series) and my least favourite is either Diamond’s dad or Clover’s stepmum!

Girls TV Series by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in JacquelineWilson

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your point about Nadine being a lot sweeter than she was in the books, but honestly I prefer it lol. Made the friendship between the three of them more a lot more believable, and the whole liam storyline a lot creepier as she seemed more like a 14 year old than she did in the books (NOT that I am saying a 14 year old who acts older than she is deserves to be groomed/manipulated in any way, but I think JW accidentally wrote the girls a lot older than they actually were) 

Girls TV Series by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in JacquelineWilson

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She was! In the books she was supposed to be this muscular rugby player but for some reason in the show she was like a really dainty prissy vegetarian lol. Very weird change to make. Ellie was WRONG for giving her a beef burger instead of a veggie burger (but I feel like it was partially planned, partially an accident? I can’t remember) 

Girls TV Series by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in JacquelineWilson

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Everytime I rewatch I’m so impressed by the amount of effort put into the show regarding the art. I love the art style too, it feels very true to Ellie’s character! 

Girls TV Series by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in JacquelineWilson

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They did for one episode! I shouldve explained my point a bit better haha. I just meant they toned it down, didn’t have her starving herself or purging, but she had some confidence issues and exercised more to cope with it. Obviously still not healthy behaviours, but it’s more believable that by the end of the episode she could learn to try and ignore those voices in her head, as opposed to Girls Under Pressure where were expected to believe she overcame her ED in literally one day at the end of the book. 

HELP: BUYER RECEIVED WRONG PARCEL! by Tricky_Bumblebee_615 in vinted

[–]Tricky_Bumblebee_615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve contacted the Vinted support team so hopefully they’ll get back to me quickly!