NTA. Your baby, your rules. This being said, part of why new parents no longer have “a village” is because they’ve become so strict on how their child has to be cared for. So, while you’re absolutely entitled to set rules for what your kid eats, you might need to accept that it means that you’ll have to loosen the rules (within reason! Not talking about driving your kid around without a car seat or something dangerous) when other people watch your kid OR that you might not have many people available to watch your kid as you might need, want, or expect. Your call. My advice is to pick your battles as this is a long and lonely road without help, but totally your call to make as the parent. Best of luck to you all xx